Why did you choose the college you attend?
Favorite Answer
1) escape from home
2) seek independence
I also picked the college for all the wrong reasons…or more accurately none of the traditionally “rational” reasons
1) it was far from home (about 3,000 miles)
2) there were no relatives nearby to ride herd on me
3) ohhh…and they accepted me (ok, this is a traditional, rational reason…ok ok, just shows it’s hard to be perfect; so cut me some slack already, ok?)
I was the youngest in the family and had developed a Cinderalla-syndrome…got tired of getting all the hand-me-downs and being told what to do all the time by everyone else in the family. The family valued education, so leaving home and going out of state was the path of least resistance for my escape route.
Besides, I hung out with some friends who were really smart…and so everyone thought I was in the same classes with them…and everyone just assumed I was one of them and should be going to college like them, too. But I was only an average student, and my friends were all honor society types.
Because I went to college without an educational goal other than get a degree, I changed my major 7 times in the first 2 years…then got told if I didn’t graduate in the normal 4 years, I could be drafted and sent to Vietnam. So I scoured the college catalog looking for a major that would accept all the crazy mix of classes that I had taken…and the credits would all add up to allow me to graduate in the remaining 2 years…and with luck, I found a major…(Geography) and if I did double summer sessions for the last 2 years I would graduate on time. [Note: Although many of the courses in the first 2 years are general ed requirements common to any major, there were choices and electives that for a Geography major fulfilled two requirements at the same time…counting as a general ed item AND as a requirement for the major.]
After that, I took a chance to go one to graduate school and earn an MA degree…..thinking I might want to teach….sort of doing something good for the country by helping to educate folks rather than being a target (or worst yet, dead meat) in Vietnam. By then I was truly interested in Geography…which I had discovered quite by accident.
I managed to survive grad school and got hired as a college instructor (they were short staffed where I completed the MA), and, since I wasn’t drafted yet…went on for a PhD. During that time, the war ended and we didn’t have to worry about being drafted.
In retrospect, the one thing that was NOT on my mind about my college education was the expectation of high pay due to high education. I can honestly say I was studying for the sake of improving my mind and outlook…not studying to get a high paying job. I think my life has been more enjoyable because I wasn’t so focused on a high salary….when looking around, it seems there are very few people who have enough money…everyone wants to earn more, including Bill Gates (who seems to be among the richest folks in the world).
I feel that II succeeded, and my education empowered me to remain independent, earn a living to maintain my independence and develop the interests and hobbies that I have to make my life very enjoyable…and for that, I am very, very pleased.
I suppose the key point I want to emphasize to you is to be flexible and open to opportunities that come up in your life. In college, you have an opportunity to be exposed to more things than at any time in your life. The general ed course requirements may “force” you to take courses you wouldn’t normally chose to take…or may have little or no interest to you. But I suggest to be open to new ideas…you never know what surprises life can have in store for you. Just be prepared and ready to take advantage of opportunities by have a well-rounded education and a keen mind to adapt your knowledge and skills to new situations and opportunities.
Hope this helps. Best wishes in your life’s endeavors.
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