A few days ago
Ryan M

So I like this girl?

Im chubby a little. And people call me “BIG RYAN” but I dont care. Its better than them calling me “FATASS” or something more ignorant. Im quiet in school and dont say much. People tease me, but mostly the ones I knew from middle school. I really like this girl, and shes quiet also. I have her in 2 classes and she doesnt say much. But she looks smart. But I heard some people said that she went there last year, and maybe she got held back a semester and their going to move her up 2nd semester. But I dont know. I want to talk to her somehow, but shes just so quiet, and im shy. My self esteem and confidence is moderate. It used to be so low. But I stopped caring about what people said about me. I walk everynight and drink more water. I have a wide frame.

Are girls physically attracted by males or mentally attracted? I see girls that go by looks, and there always SLUTS. There more less going for a guy that looks good and dont care about how they act or personality lol.

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A few days ago
Anonymous

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Okay! Well it’s wonderful that’s you have pretty good self esteem and all that, if you didnt, it would be a little harder. First, if this girl is really nice (if she seems nice, and maybe you could ask some friends what they think of her) try saying hi to her in the halls and in classes. When a guy says hi to a girl, it totally makes their day, but make sure you add their name in it too. dont just be like hi. and walk away, say; Hey So and So! she’ll most likely respond, since it’s just natural. if she doesnt, dont get discouraged. might want to help her with like.. assignments and such and ask questions. “Hey, so and so? do you know who to do number 6?” Etc. Just be yourself, and smile and laugh! You might want to talk to her friend, since it seems she’s a bit more, outgoing then your ladyfriend. just ask her how’s it going and all that. Just be super nice, and Be Sure To Say Hi!!
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A few days ago
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Hey, I just like to say that CONGRATS on getting a confidence boost! It’s totally great that you don’t care of what people say!

Anyway, about that girl… Get to know her. Just be casual. Be nice to her and be yourself. You’re a great person anyway. Don’t think about the ‘girl/boy like’ thing, be friends with her. Take it slow.

Well, I hope this helps! And if you do manage to talk to her please tell me what happened. I would love to know!

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A few days ago
Anonymous
Just work it up and talk to her and her friend.

Whats the worst that could happen? Not much.

Whats the best that could happen? You make some new friends, maybe more.

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A few days ago
Anonymous
well. i, personally, am mentally attracted to guys. if they’re smart, funny, and caring, i could care LESS about what they look like!!
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