Anyway, life just happens, so you don’t have to worry so much.

I am very anxious myself, so I can understand your problem pretty well.

Just be supportive to yourself, don’t see the things through the eyes of strangers, are they so important to you? Why do you justify their possible negative comments?

SUPPORT yourself, whoever you are, whichever is your good and bad character elements. BECAUSE NOBODY IS GOING TO DO IT FOR YOU.

Love yourself as it is, show sympathy just like you would do to a good friend. I’ve …found myself ever since I did this.

Good luck

http://www.couns.uiuc.edu/brochures/self.htm

http://www.more-selfesteem.com/self_confidence_tips.htm

http://www.mindtools.com/selfconf.html

10 Ways to Instantly Build Self Confidence

http://www.wikihow.com/Build-Self-Confidence