A few days ago
KT Tunstall

High School help?

i’m a freshman this year i have a best friend but she has another best friend, nothing wrong with that, but I can’t help but feel left out. We all hang out but they always seem to be closer. And I don’t know what to do. Sure I’ve tried joining in etc. But I don’t know it always feels like she’d rather pick the other girl than me.. Along with that, I have sr. high gym this year 9-12 anyways this girl a year older than me despises me because of a boy issue, she literally hates me and she was talking about how gym would be “fun” this year with me and my best friend(the one mentioned upthere) anyways i guess i need help with both. How can i deal with my best friend having another best friend? And how can I deal having gym with someone that literally hates me? Ah this should be a fun school year:x Please help advice is welcome from anyone

thanks in advance:D

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A few days ago
jac

Favorite Answer

who caresignore that stupid girl in your gym class

girls are so pettyjust make other friends in your gym class and ignore her most likely she won’t start anything especially with a teacher there.

as for your best friend….well tell her how you feel about when you hang out with the three of you..this used to happen to me too it’s usually not a good idea to hang out in an odd numbered group haha somebody always feels left out and then it usually starts drama…

try making some new friends

you will be in a brand new school with so many people you’ve never met before

when i went to high school everyone’s friends and groups they hung out with all change..no one really hangs out with the same people they used too..

trust me you will lose friends you don’t need and gain the best ones you’ve ever had

good luck and take in every moment of it high school is awesome!

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A few days ago
handyandy
Hey! I’m sorry to hear that. The unfortunate thing about other people is that you have no idea what’s going on inside their heads! It is difficult that you feel left out, but it is indeed possible, that although she still likes you, she likes the other friends better, or it is possible that you are jealous… You need to decide what to do; no one can do that for you. If I had this problem I would just tell me friend how I felt, and discuss it with her (she may not be aware she’s even doing it – which is probably the case). If she truly is your best friend, you shouldn’t have any problems in doing that (it doesn’t mean you won’t feel awkward) – don’t forget that worrying about these things doesn’t help you, so talk to her… find a solution, so that you can move on. Don’t forget there are so many other people out there… you’re bound to make new friends, lose friends, it’s all part of life.

It is hard when people don’t like you, it’s even worse, as you know, when they hate you. I think you know that ignoring her, is probably the best thing you can do – that way you don’t get yourself involved with any rubbish… If she does try to start you, or say’s mean things, just laugh it off, and if she keeps harassing you, talk to your teacher about it – but more importanty the biggest thing is not to let her know that she’s upsetting you (if she is), otherwise she’ll never stop, because she’ll think she can intimidate you.

I hope this helped – remember this is just advice, you know what you should do.

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