Place value on more important things and don’t worry about popularity. This is just an immature high school concept which is unimportant in college and real life. Trying to do something that is stupid and only counts for four years isn’t something to strive for.

Try striving for good grades so you can go to a good college. In the real world, educational level, class, house size, car, job, neighborhood are some of the yardsticks by which people measure success. Some of these things may be as stupid as popularity, but they are measures that last from age 22 to 82, a whopping 60 years and far more important than popularity.

My sister has the same troubles **(she’s 13.5)** just be yourself, if you try to be popular your making so much harder than it needs to be ! And plus, popular girls are bullies and can really hurt “geeks” when there at it ( and I mean emotionally ) just try to remember, popular girls are popular for the wrong reasons and when your out of high school and onto college you wont care that you wore or who you hung out with, and the “ popular girls or jocks” almost always turn out to be bums that are fat, ugly, and work at Happy Jack’s with no career or ambitions**( thens whos the “geeks” )** ….. You are popular with your real friend

– HOOROO !

What i’d Do… is carefully forget approximately approximately what she’s doing, perhaps exchange the form you dress yet to not the factor the place you will desire to get new outfits. Then start up putting out with some distinctive human beings. yet do not stop band. ok? yet while She Copies What You Do or talks in the back of your returned in any way, basically confront her. Ask What The Hell She Thinks She’s Doing. then permit it circulate from there. yet do not and that i repeat do not turn to violence. She hits you, you sue her!

be yourself…dont worry about being “popular”…just be yourself, be happy and never ever change who you are to “fit in” more. although it may seem like a huge deal…being “popular” wont get you any further in life than not being it. so stick with your friends, and have fun, thats what high school is about. never ditch your friends to try and be more popular. just have fun, the rest will come. dont worry about it.

dont try to become anything just be yourself!!!!!

put out.