A few days ago
Anonymous

Problem at college?

At college it was the 1st day today where we were all put into tutor groups for registration. I was supposed to be in the group I wanted with all of my friends and a really nice tutor but the school moved me into another tutor group. All of the people that i’ve been put with I don’t like and I’ve been given the worst teacher in the school as a tutor. I can’t see how it could be any worse and I’ll be in this form for the next 2 years! I’ve already asked another form tutor and my head of house if I can change and they both pretty much said, “Unlucky!”. It seems as if they want me to have a **** time. Is there another way how I can convince the school to put me back in my original good form?

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A few days ago
mischief1018

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Unfortunately in situations like this the school usually will not change things unless there is a really good reason, such as the tutor/teacher being unfair or unavailable.

It is one of life’s lessons, in order to teach you to get along with people that you may not care for. You are, afterall, there to learn and not to have it easy. I am also guessing that you are paying a great amount of money to receive a great education and not just an expensive ride.

Just because the teacher has a reputation for being “the worst tutor in the school” does not necessarily mean that it is true. You could get changed and miss out on someone who might turn out to be the best tutor for you. I don’t see how you can know for sure that this teacher is not a good choice for you based on the first day and the word of other people.

You could try explaining to someone that you chose the first group because you heard that the teacher assigned as the tutor was an excellent choice and you would love to have the opportunity to work with him/her. Whatever you do, do not tell them that you do not like the tutor you were assigned or the students that are also assigned to that group.

Before doing anything, ask yourself if you “really” dislike the other students or if you just do not want to take the time to get to know them because you would prefer to have fun with your friends.

Sadly, there will be many professors and students that you will have to work with that you may not like or get along with. Just as you will have bosses and co-workers that you would prefer not to know.

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