A few days ago
nl enthusiast

Why do the special needs get builled a lot?

I have a slight autism and always get bullied a lot at school. It’s like some people are going to make fun of the thing what I do on the class. I hate the class, I hate the lunch break too since it’s the high time to get beaten or get cheated. I’ve even ever get smashed some chows into my face when they noticed it was way too gross. Looks like they do consider the special needs as the disturbs who are just crazy and can’t do every stuffs. I can’t also do sort of things so quick as everyone does and it looks like making them so mad. And things sometimes go really bad. It’ll just cause to the discrimination. I can see the special needs are pretty easy to get builled or ignored because of their unique ways of thinking or doing.

Please help me out from under so I can be little positive.

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A few days ago
Grannie

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Where do you live? and how old are you?

I’m actually asking those two questions out of curiosity and I apologize for that but Our local schools don’t even let the children talk (literally) for the first half of their lunch period.

Anyway, talking to a counselor is probably a good idea but I’m not sure that will do too much good.

The hardest and most important thing for you to understand and remember is that some people have so little self confidence or self worth that they have to bully and insult others to give themselves a false sense of worth.

The only way they have to make themselves feel better about who they are is, unfortunately, to put someone else down.

Understanding that they are the one with the problem, not you, may help you deal with the situation but most likely won’t make it stop hurting.

Good Luck

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A few days ago
MissBehavior
Many people don’t understand what is happening with you, especially at your age. You might want to educate the other kids about autism. I think once people realize how the disability affects you, they may open up and actually help you. Also, you must have a co-teacher who can help you with these problems. Ask her to get together with your mother to plan a presentation.

Next, try to look at yourself to see if any of your behaviors are causing some of the problems. I’ m not talking about behaviors related to autism, but your responses to teasing, bullying or other challenges. See if your co-teacher can get you a book on handling teasing and other social skills.

Finally, I admire your insight into the social issues. Some belong to you and some to the other kids. Try saying “Hi” to other people and give out compliments constantly. Build up a few good relationships to rely on during tough times. To have a friend, you need to be a friend.

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A few days ago
Mickey M
You,re right. They are being mean. Get a counsellor’s help. People with Special Needs are just the same as everybody else, but were just born with some things that they can not simply do, and alot of people bully these people because they are different.
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A few days ago
billi70
Talk to the councellor or principal or suprintendent about this or send your parents on your behalf.They would then talk to all students in general and can warn them of consequences.

Your parents can say to the school admin that they do not send you to get bullied and that if you have to change school due to this reason,it would harm their school’s reputation which can also effect on the funds they receive from the govt.

Next time if someone throws anything on your face,throw it back at their face and say ‘this was yours so I returned it.’

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