Do you think kids with Learning disabilities are?
without pushing them to learn is setting them up
for failure later on? When I was in a special school
for kids with LD I was told they are not trying to
help me do anything,I was there because I could not be helped(1970s).Is that setting me up for
failure or not?
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I have several children with disabilities, they learn differently. Schools will do the minimum required, of course, and that’s why every parent should be completely involved in their kids school. Very rarely will they just automatically provide an aide, I had to fight for two years to get one for my autistic daughter, two years before she was even in regular classrooms, I started when she was still in the DevDel preschool. When we had a bad/untrained aide, I sent a letter to the school and the district coordinator that she was not acceptable and we got a new one. I had to point out the law over and over, I had to point out that her LRE was in a mainstream setting, while they wanted to stick her in the autism classroom. That room is fine for some kids, in fact, there are many kids who NEED to focus on lifeskills. Most kids don’t need that though, and they DO need pushed in academics.
My daughter was one, and I can tell you the school got very tired of me coming in, we had IEP meetings monthly to address her progress and plan the next steps. However, I ceased to care what the school thought, because in fifteen years, it’s going to be my daughter who will pass/fail based on what she’s learned, and the school will still be there plugging away. I can say that several other children benefited from my pushing, the school decided since they had those supports in place that they might as well use them for other kids. BUT IF THOSE PARENTS would have been fighting for the same assistance, instead of just me, it would have probably taken less than two years to get them in place.
The same goes for curriculum, they spend a lot of money on one particular curriculum, so if you go in there and say “My child isn’t learning from this, and studies show that ABC curriculum is effective for teaching, they don’t want to buy it. They’ll use every ineffective permutation of the curriculum they already have, until the child is beyond failure.
I could go on and on, but every parent on here who is struggling needs to have www.wrightslaw.com saved on their webbrowser…and try to attend one of their seminars, it’s worth the money.
But it’s worse than that–and today’s schools are jsut as bad (putting children with disabilities in a segregated classroom that happens to be physically a part of a regular school is NOT inclusion).
The reason I say the situation is actually worse is that LD students are, more often than not, assigned work BELOW their capabilities. “Their own level” is a proper strategy only if it means “at a pace that is consistant with the student’s abilities” (some may simply take longer–but will get the material if they have that time and proper support).
Only a small minority of LD students are not able to master basic academic material. Most of the ones who do not, however, could–and are victims of a broken system and the preconceptions of the people around them–including educators.
Her first report card was amazing. Sure there were a lot of recommendations for “Support Required” but that is really a given. However, her teachers have said that she has a better memory than many of the other students in the class (who don’t require extra help) which is a major bonus for her.
So, in response to your question, I believe that is has a lot to do with the extra work that is done with the child at home. Always encourage them and focus a lot on what their strengths are and encourage them at every chance you get.
Hope this helps and have a great day/night!!!
xx K
Unfortunately, in the 70’s there may not have been organizations in place to help. They were probably trying to keep those with learning disabilities out of the mainstream classroom so that they were not chastized and demoralized by other students. I don’t think they were setting you up for failure, but it doesn’t sound as if they were very productive in helping you either…
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