A few days ago
Anonymous

In September i have to do a class speech in front of a whole class of “hard nut boys” but i have?

a really high pitch voice (like a little 6 year old!!) i am now nearly 16 and in front of a class of boys ALL with deep voices they laugh and talk about me when i am speaking in front of the class. what can i do should i change from a all boy class to a mixed class because i feel so embarrssed about my voice i will not be able to do my speech. any help?

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A few days ago
Jac B

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Make a joke about it before they do. It would show that you are confident in yourself and don’t care what they say, and would most likely discourage any comments from them.
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A few days ago
JerseyMuse
Aw, that must be hard. I don’t like to speak in public either, but guess what? Now I’m a teacher. I’m also disabled, I use a wheelchair, and it was hard for me at first to have courage leading a class. But now I do it and enjoy it, because I’ve become comfortable with who I am, and that makes those around me comfortable. So you never know what you can do if you keep trying.

First, let me encourage you by saying that your voice will change eventually. Everyone matures at different rates. I know you’ve probably heard that a lot. My big (literally) brother, was fat and average height with a girlish voice until he was a Senior when he grew to 6’2” and suddenly got cute and a deep voice.

Second, I agree with the other poster – if you can be brave enough to joke about your own voice, it will take the wind out of their sails. Pretend you feel okay about it, and they will believe you. (this works for me. I pretended I am a confident teacher, and eventually I felt that way. I think of it like acting.) Maybe you can introduce yourself, like, “Hi, I’m Joe, and I had too much helium this morning” or “Hi, I’m Joe and I traded voices with my little brother today” and get them to laugh. If you don’t feel you can do that, maybe try to get changed to a mixed class with people who are less intimidating to you.

Bottom line is there will always be others who find something they dislike or try to bring you down, but the best defense is to grow to like yourself and not be swayed by what those people think. People like that don’t have the capacity to sympathize with others or show compassion, but you are better than that. God bless you, and I hope you do a great job on the speech.

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A few days ago
Anonymous
Well, my suggestion might seem pretty drastic, but if your voice bothers you so much, the night before your speech, find some place where you can really scream your lungs out. Like a ball game or a concert, and really let it rip. I mean scream till your throat hurts and it makes you feel like you lungs will come up when you cough. This should put so much strain on your vocal cords, that you will sound raspy…if you can talk at all.

You are probably just a late bloomer, and your voice will drop in time, but if you use my method make sure you have some throat lozenges handy. And you shouldn’t worry so much about what other people think. You are who you are.

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