A few days ago
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How should I feel better about my school?

I moved to a new school last year and absolutely hated it. All the friends that I made moved away. I was miserable and did much poorly on schoolwork then I usually do. I wanted to go to a differnt school this year because I really despise this one but all the others cost too mcuh money or have some other problem. I’m going back to school next wednesday and I’m really scared to go back. I’m more of a shy person that becomes very talkative when I know people better. But its hard for me to make new friends. Could anyone help me in feeling better about this school so I don’t have to feel bad all through my highschool years.

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A few days ago
busymom

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Often in situations when we feel bad about something it is because of how we view things, people, and places.

The most important thing is not as much where we are, but how are we going to act.

Our attitude towards a place, or people sets the tone for how they will react to us.

Focus on making one, or two friends rather than a group of friends, join a club, or activity that involves team work, this will give others a change to get to know you over time.

Good luck.

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A few days ago
cristy88211
Well try not to think of it as u did last year…its a new year which means new people and more oppurtonities to make friends….so take them and enjoy it because hating it will only make it go by slower and it will only make ur stay there even more miserable…so lighten up and enjoy it because high school is suppose to b the best time of ur life…
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A few days ago
serendipity
well don’t think about last year. this is a whole new year and you can be a different person. i understand that you are shy, and you find it hard to make friends. but an easy way to talk to/get to know people is just to try to get to know the people that sit next to you in your classes. try saying hi to that person that sits next to you math for example. and if you really get to talking, then maybe ask them if you can sit with them at lunch. this way you’ll meet more people.
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A few days ago
Nora Explora
There will be new students coming in this year. Be a friend to them as they don’t have any pre-knowledge of the school. They will need friends too and breaking into a “click” as you have found is no picnic.
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A few days ago
lyndz44
join an activity that you enjoy lie band or sports, maybe this will help because you will be forced to interact with people who have things in common with you. hope this helps
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