A few days ago
billyxc729

At school, what qualities do girls need to be popular?

I just want to know how much things have changed since I was a student

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A few days ago
tinybubbles

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It’s all about the attitude baby

*snap*snap*snap*snap*

lol. j/k

Also what did you mean by popular? Stereotypically, if you mean popular in the prep division then it’s the usual quirky, cheerful, happy girl in the group. If you mean popular in an infamous manner, maybe the girl that had an abortion two weeks ago and smokes.

It’s how one carries themself. No matter how small, tall, fat, skinny you are it all depends on how well you communicate with everyone. The popularity that I’m mostly aware of is the one that’s really well-liked by a lot. It’s usually the funniest, most outgoing, spicy one. No matter how ugly he or she is, usually it’s their personality that overshines their appearance almost making them seem like an angel. Also a person who people can go to when they need a shoulder to lean on or an ear to hear – the rock of the group. We don’t want some dull, slow person whom we don’t understand and who won’t even attempt to communicate with the others. It gets tiring y’know? We want someone who will keep the mood going. Personality really does bite 🙂

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A few days ago
Anonymous
from a guy’s point of view, the things mentioned in another entry (pretty, funny, skinny, dress good, be good at sports, and money) are all true, but also: confidence, purpose and ‘have your own life’. Meaning, you can have all the traits listed, but if you are living for other people’s approval you will be seen as weak. If you are just floating with no hobbies, projects, events…you will be dull. People might not think that ‘having your own life’ makes you popular, but it brings respect and interest, with that comes….popularity.

One last thing: debate skills. If you can learn to work a conversation well, you will win most battles. A chat, a hallway comment, an email, a question in class. At worst, this will make ‘popular’ girls respect you.

Hope it helps and you become popular AND have your own life.

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A few days ago
Anonymous
I guess they have to be really pretty, modern, nice personality, smart and do some extra curricular actives such as being a cheerleader. And the fact if they go out with popular boys in the school could rise their popularity as well.
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A few days ago
Lil Mamii
Well popularity isn’t as stressed today as it was then. Just looking beautiful and staying updated with everything will get you by. Also being involved in stuff where everyone will know your name in a good way. You’ll have groupies out of this world. Also keeping fashion updated.
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A few days ago
danger
well at some schools, its the cheerleader (and boy are they mean, i was one) then there are the quote un-quote “ghetto fabulous” girls who get all sorts of attention, then there are the girls who play sports, the girls who are just pretty but sit there and act dumb and that’s basically it, its not like it was on the Brady bunch (not saying that you’re old or anything but everyone has seen that show) where MARSHA was so gorgeous and perfect.
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A few days ago
brokenangel
to be the smae with everybody but a lil better and plus be really mean unfortunately rlly popular girls arent that unique lol
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A few days ago
DreamBig2012
Where I go to school, you need to be pretty, funny, skinny, dress good, be good at sports, and have a little bit of money.
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A few days ago
Anonymous
well i dont know it depends on what grade level you mean but for me you have to shop at stores like abercrombie, and hollister. You can’t be fat. those are the main things
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