15 yo old attractive daughter, talented writer, gifted artist, refuses to return to school after 2 trimesters of 9th grade. my ex has primary custody so theres little I can do. to her credit, my ex has her seeing a psychiatrist, psychologist, therapist, and the school counselor, weekly. school says they don’t want to lose a straight A student, but are enabling her to not go. the school counselor offers her all sorts of programs available in our district for students like her, psychiatrist says she has to get better first and put her on prozac , the psychologist dx’d her as an avoidant personality and talk to her about confronting life head on. she has experieced 4 deaths – two of them unexpected and the suicide death of one of her friends. she heard the shot, and called 911. she eats just enough to keep her weight stable (ok), but knows she’ll never have to work because my ex and I have been lucky. she c/o scary hallucinations about death.what can I do? she says she’ll not go.