I posted this question in children & grade school, but I also want to post it here because I need to know?
I have a meeting with the school principal tomorrow at 1PM. What are my rights? Read details….?
My son is under treatment for Encopresis & I called the school to ask about Home Bound. They told me that Home Bound was generally for kids who were so sick they could not leave the house. But I’ve heard from others that kids w/ Encopresis have been approved for Home Bound. (Encopresis is a condition where the bowels are so stretched out that he has bowel movements in his pants up to several times a day) I know they are going to try to convince me to send my son to school w/ this condition because the principal already told me he’d be willing (or the counselor or nurse) to change my sons pants. I do not want to put my son through this! I’m also considering Home Schooling for one more year until he’s “cured.” What are my rights or any other options available? They told me I will be meeting w/ the principal, school psychiatrist, person in charge of Home Bound and one other person, but I can’t remember who.. I feel very intimidated to talk w/ this many people.
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BTW, bringing my husband would not be much help either because he is not totally supportive of my decision, but is allowing me to do this.
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You can’t answer your own question.
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Go to http://www.hslda.com for info on homeschool laws in your state.
You might actually get approved for the home bound program if you simply tell them flat out that if you are refused you will just homeschool independently. They want their money for your sons enrollment, and if the choice is to approve him or lose his enrollment altogether they will probably approve him. So feel free to give them an ultimatum if they won’t cooperate. You are the parent and you have the right to homeschool if the school is not meeting your son’s need.
If Home Bound is not available to you, and your doctor can’t recommend anything, you should probably look into homeschooling.
The laws are different in every state. You should call your local school district or check your state board of education’s website for requirements. Below is a good website for a quick look…
http://www.hslda.org/laws/default.asp?State=TN
I homeschool my daughter. She didn’t have any physical or medical problems…but was still picked on so badly that it took awhile to boost her self-esteem after the ordeal. Just some teacher made a comment and the kids jumped on it. They’re like jackles or something! Anyway, she is much happier at home and you’ll find that most homeschooling families are very accommodating, tolerant, and easy to talk to.
Good luck!
In no way, shape, or form is it best for your child to have to go through that, in a classroom, on a daily basis. Not only can the kids be cruel (like truly cruel) about stuff like that, but after the first couple of days, you can bet that the teachers/nurses/whoever aren’t going to be that thrilled with the situation…and it will show with how they treat your son.
The school is obviously trying to keep the funding for your son (which always kind of seems ironic to me, as he’s what they’re supposed to be spending his funding on), and are not concerned with his welfare.
If you can get HomeBound, great! If not, withdraw him immediately, and homeschool him privately. It is legal in all 50 states, and as long as you follow the rules in your state, the school can’t do a thing about it. Here is a site that will tell you what you need to do, just click on your state:
http://www.hslda.org/hs/state/default.asp
Bless you for going through this for your son, and for fighting for his rights. No matter what the school tells you, you are in charge of his education and his welfare – they have to deal with whatever you decide.
If they tell you that you can’t do home bound, whatever you do, do NOT bring up that you’ll homeschool. That’ll open up a HUGE can of worms that you don’t want to open at this point. Just thank them for their time and leave.
You have been given several great answers, I agree with holding your ground; you are the parent; you decide not the schools.
The schools are there to provide a service for you, and your family.
The schools need to meet your needs not the other way around.
If it was me, I would cancel the meeting, and say, “thank you for your time, but I will take it from here”.
Blessings, and good luck.
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