Think about these things, and ask us again for a little more help.

For now, try to talk with him about the underlying reasons he doesn’t want you to do this. Is it because it will put an extra load on him around the house? Is he being controlling? Or does he think the timing just isn’t right?

If you can’t find the reason, or if the reason isn’t strong enough to stop you, consider counselling. It may be insecurities.

Find out, and ask again! Good luck.

Ask your husband why he is against it. Even if you just wanted to take a fun class, he should allow you to do it. The best way to beat Alzheimer’s etc., is to use your brain and learn new things.

Otherwise you can always buy a book or get it from the library and study on your own.

I pursued my goals and am happy with my choices and have no resentment towards myself nor towards him. But in my situation he had already went to college. If you go, you won’t regret it, it makes life’s journey more enjoyable and if its more money you want to make, your sure to get that. Best wishes to you