A few days ago
Anonymous

Why am I so incapable?

I’m always trying my best effort on study but still I flunked two courses last semester. I missed the scholarship again. Most of my classmates always play games and don’t work as hard as I do, but they passed all finals. I can’t accept this. Why am I so incapable?

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A few days ago
RAJESH P

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Hi

I was also in your situation till class 10th where i scored 53.5% then in class 12th i scored 87%. and my plalying remained the same. the reason being that study is like a play where u cant say that i was in field for whole 50 overs even then i didnt got man of the match award. all of my friends who scored 20/20 in science before are doing MBA now, so you cant they have no aptitude for management so they will fail.No there also they will score full marks it is about attitude. what to do:

1. look you dont think of passing think that i will score 50/50. now what should i do to get that…some practical tips are:

a) Read the book (this tip is if you hate the subject).1st read the first chapter.

b)then u write what u learnt from it.(think if ur younger brother/sis/girlfriend for whom u are a hero figures wants to understand that chapter, then what u will respond)

c)now that u have written what u learnt from it, think of any

other idea which was presented and you missed(remember each book /chapter/para has a idea)

d) read the chapter again(did you find any new idea), if you found, then contemplate why you missed the idea the first time you read.

e)now if there will be any questions on that chapter it will be related to that idea, so now you can answer it. because you now know what the idea is.

f)remember: book tell you idea and question paper asks whether you know what book taught you or not.

revert to me for special situations…thanks

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A few days ago
phoenix
you visualize school and all of the studies as authority. stop that. if you approach these things as something friendly, worth your while, and enjoyable, you may develop a more open and receptive mind. these things are not the enemy. they are recreation and enjoyment that you can gain strength from and with which to develop tools to realize your future dreams.

i’m not sure where your keenest interests lie. but you can set yourself up for failure by being afraid of failing. oh, you can be too sure of yourself too. being a little scared is a natural and healthy thing. just keep your eye on the prize and don’t waste time on too much goofing around. give yourself enough work time but not so you don’t have any fun time. self discipline is a very worthy art and implement.

carpe diem

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A few days ago
advisor
I think u need to increse ur level of efficiency. U maybe working hard, but u need to prioritize ur subjects of study. Identify the most important parts and study those. That’s why when u say ur friends are playing yet doing good is because they have prioritized their subjects, utilizes their time more efficiently – that is very important – IMPROVE UR LEVEL OF EFFICIENCY.
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A few days ago
JuliaLionHeart
Don’t worry,hard times like this happen,especially attending university,I think you need a break,just to recharge your battery(especially your self reliance)and then start again!

I know it sound like an easygoing answer but to me it’s the best solution,even only two days can be useful.Good luck! 😉

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A few days ago
roc/WLA
ou dont hve 2 bso hard on urself#1dnot judeursielf agmst others SETUROWNPACE rember you will live ,but will you lie-misserably–HUHck it u will b o k dont read into it (dnt read 2 mch in2 it ) UR gng2 b allrite,dont LOOK@THEMas achivers LOOK @ ursief as @BLEIVER sielf f-da others go 4 your own yea you go n get it you noy inc.patd you have enough sense too say i got a prob …i totaly hope that i have kinda helpped u out it fells chitty but you asked nd thats more than 1[mill.. that others do let alone fore theiselves GOOD LUCK ROCWLA
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A few days ago
ana z
Use a different question. Ask yourself what is it that you are doing easily and effortlessly.

Than ask yourself :

how are you doing it; what are you doing when you are getting it done so effortlessly; what do you do step by step;

how do you feel before you start doing it (thing that you do effortlessly) step by step; How do you think about it (step by step); What motivates you to do it? What is your goal for it (the thing that you are doing so effortlessly)?

How do you feel and think whle in the process of doing it. How does your mind remenber how and what to do.

Let me know your answers and I will send you more questions.

Best,

I am me

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A few days ago
Gangsteer
Maybe what course ur doing isn’t for you or you think you are trying your hardest but your not- i believe that all humans are ALWAYS capavle of trying harder…or maybe its self- fullfilling prophesy where you think that you are incapable so you become that way…
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A few days ago
Matapena
I dont think you are incapable.

there are so many factors which make you fail.

I am sure about it.

just take time to ponder yourself.

email me anytime you need somebody to talk to.

just dont give it up!

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A few days ago
Anonymous
your to capable
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