What should I do with my life?
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In general, the best college you can get into will have the best chance of letting you become what you want to be, and you can’t possibly know which one that will be yet.
They say that students these days will actually go through six to eight careers during their lifetimes, so if you can’t decide what you want to be (which is kind of an old-fashioned concept, but most parents don’t realize that), realize that you may be able to do many different things.
Also, I often tell my students (I’m a college professor) that the ideal career for them may not have been invented yet. Think of all the innovations in the last thirty or forty years, from personal computers to nanotechnology, and realize that all of the people working in these fields went to school not realizing that these careers would ever exist. My best advice to students is to get a good grounding in basic skills (you will always need to be able to read, write well, do math, understand basic scientific principles, etc.), stay flexible, and be willing to continue learning, so that you can be ready for what comes next.
As to colleges, you can start early on the process of putting together your own database of possibilities. As you get the brochures, you can sift through them, look up the schools’ websites, and start to develop a list of things which sound good and not so good to you. By the time you ARE ready to decide, you will be able to say, “I’m looking for a private, Catholic school between 5,000 and 10,000, in the Northeastern part of the country, which offers majors in the following areas, and which has the following activities. I want to take classes directly with the faculty, not TAs, I want to be in a city, so that I can more easily do internships, and I want to be able to study abroad in Paris.” Make lists of schools which sound interesting, those you don’t know about, and those in which you are definitely not interested. By narrowing down the possibilities, it will be easier later on. And eventually, once you have a sense of what you want, there are tools like the College Board’s College Matchmaker, which lets you go online, put in your own qualifications and what you are looking for in a school, and will give you back a list of schools which meet your criteria. You can then go onto their websites to see if they interest you, and do some campus visits over the next few years to see if the schools live up to their hype.
As for what to study, you should think what you like, and what you see yourself doing for the rest of your life. For example, if you like biology you could be a doctor, chemistry ?you could be a pharmacist, physics? you could be an engineer…you should gather all your likes on whatever subject and try to research any careers that contain these subjects.
You shouldn’t rush, you are still very young, and believe me plenty of people don’t know what they want to do even after they graduate from h.s! I didn’t know, but I took my time researching and trying to find what I like the best (at first I wanted to do psychology, then ended up doing marketing, now I work for an auto company! go figure!)
Take your time and you will be fine, your young, I’m sure you will figure something out…it will come to you…Good Luck!
Oh, and as a frosh in high school, it isn’t a big deal not knowing what you want to do for the rest of your life.
So, to come to the final decision that what you want to be , for that you have to see and find out the inner talent from inside which you have and after finding out the talent inside you then you match up with the suitable carrers you know about that .
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