You don’t even respect yourself.

You plan, and you dream. But I can assure you, youR plan will no doubt always back-fire.

My dear friend.

“Tough times never last. But tough people do.”

I can truly understand how you feel, and if you come here to seek an answer, you must be prepared for the truth and brutality of what others will say.

I won’t tell you to grow up and get a grip. No. That is your character, and perhaps a good one. But if it’s bad, YOU are making it bad.

You just said you are going to apply something from home cuz you feel safe even though you know it won’t help. Here, my friend, you just insulted your own capabilities. That’s 1.

2, you are scared to live a lone because you just broke up with your girlfriend.

3. You had your life planned out but now backfired.

Then now, the future scared you but you have dreams, that’s 4.

Look into the mirror, “asker”, and ask yourself who is the most important person in your life?

…

…”you’re looking at him.”

4 issues you brought up, 4 EXCUSES YOU MADE.

What you said here isn’t reasons of feelings of fear. It’s choices you made.

WHAT IS YOUR DREAM?

Then ask yourself. 1, 2, 3 and 4. Do you think you can achieve your dream, if you always take the safe route? Play safe? Unable to cope with changes? Re-edify plans? Cope with pressure, rely on parents and girlfriend?

No, all I can say is “F” YOU.

HOW DARE YOU BLOODY LOOK OWN ON YOURSELF. HOW DARE YOU MAKE YOURSELF LOOK LIKE CRAP IN FRONT OF ME. HOW DARE YOU THINK YOU CANNOT GO EVEN WHEN ALONE. HOW DARE YOU DON’T MAKE CHOICES THAT WILL CHANGE THE TIDES OF YOUR SITUATION.

HOW DARE YOU FREAKING GIVE UP SO EASILY. WHO THE “F” ARE YOU TO SAY YOU ARE TO BE AFRAID. WHO THE “F” ARE YOU TO SAY YOU CANNOT MAKE IT OUT THERE. WHO THE “F” ARE YOU TO PUT YOUR GIRLFRIEND IN THE CENTRE OF YOUR LIFE, THUS CHANGING THE WAY YOU THINK,, JUDGE AND FEEL. BECAUSE OF ALL THIS **** AND EXCUSES LOOK AT YOU COMING HERE AND ASKING THIS ******* QUESTIONS, GIVING EXCUSES, AND LAME REASON!

You asked questions here before. I answered them. I answered with honesty and brutality because I simply believe you have what it takes.

That you can make it out there. Haven’t I told you before? That everything you do is a choice?

Do you think that even with this lousy characteristics you have of fear, unable to adapt, re-edify plans, do you think this outside world will take people of your pathetic skill level?

In this world, skill and talent will never go far. But passion, love, consciences, values. The ability to be Proactive, and with the urge and courage to always learn, take new challenges is what companies are looking for.

Even my own Company is filled with proactive people. If now I feel you are not worth hiring. What do you think will happen outside with other places you intend to work?

You’ll end up living a life of mediocrity, rather then a life of greatness.

My friend. Plans will never go as placed. That is why plans must always be updated. Choose to be positive about it, and create the urge and hunger for new challenges. You fear all this simply because you have never done them before. It’s just like playing a video game. You play for the first time and get beaten really bad. But constant practice will bring you far and you become better, comfortable and well refined in skill and talent.

It’s the same for this.But I can assure you, to harvest the fruits of all this successes, you must make a choice to be patient and daring. To step up even alone towards your dream. My friend, I know this feeling, and even as it is different, the basics are the same. Because me, and some other people have walked around with nothing in our hands, and nobody by our side. The feeling is horrible, fearful, scary. That every step we take is another step to losing even more then we already have.

But we all learn that only those who choose to be tough will make it through. You can always find a girlfriend. But only be being daring, courageous, that you will find one of the same. With this attitude of yours, if any woman sees through it, then like common fishes, they will abandon you. You don’t give them the hope. You don’t inspire or motivate them because you chose to be a coward, to fear, and to be unable to adapt to changes, to new challenges. If you can’t even do all this now, what makes you think you have the capability to sustain a loving relationships with family, friends? All this has problems but it only take Character and Integrity to solve the worlds most emotional relationship problems.

My friend, don’t look down on yourself. Take this challenge, and move forth. I want you to know you are not alone. Go, fulfill your dreams. Anytime you come to a stop and require assistance to move in a better direction, then there is always me. I’m not here for points, I’m here to help.

For things to be at their best, you must be at your best.

What is your dream. Here, make a decision from here and on…are you step out of your comfort zone?

I can assure you my friend that no dream can EVER BE ACHIEVED if you don’t take action, and have that courage to step out and face what scares you.

That is why so little achieve this dream they have. Because none of them dare, and non whats to take action.

Don’t ask for quick fix like any common man. Seek challenges because in the end, they build your character and automatically, you will become a man of integrity, Substance, and women will be attracted to you, and men will admire you.

But all this take time, years for sure, but in the end, the fruits of habour will be there. My only advise to you, is to take this step forward because right now, there are people waiting for you to succeed and they are your family. You may not know, but parents sacrifice too much for us to even realise. So don’t let their sacrifice be in vain. Their resources has brought you this far, so now, be a man who can achieve his dream and give yourself and your parents a wonderful life.

You are who you are today because of the decisions you made yesterday.

If you think you are alone, then you are wrong. Cuz I’m here, putting time and effort for you, when I should be working.

Move and when you are in doubt, clear it be making choice right to you. I’ll always be around, and you can always find me here.

I think everyone goes through this really scared stage….its kinda like getting cold feet right before you make a huge committment like marriage.

I just think that thousands of other people made it out alive AND said college was the best years of their life….

Try and stay positive although the first few months will feel like crap.

Good Luck!!!