A few days ago
jayguy

Question for the graduated successful!?

So, these last couple years in college have really changed me, and I’ve essentially came to the realization that I really just want a huge change in my life… a change in the types of relationships I have, a change in the kind of budget I have, and a change in how I feel about MYSELF.

Essentially… I’ve decided that I really just want to make something of myself. I’ve always considered myself a smart guy. So I’ve decided to finally make some use of it, and just.. put all my skills into becoming something meaningful that people will call successful.. a doctor.. a psychologist.. a professor.

To those who have made it.. who have gone from being that confused naive undergraduate college student… how is it now that you’ve MADE yourself? all the lawyers, doctors, entrepreneurs, chartered accountants, professors, doctorate holders..

how are things now? Compared to when you were that lowly confused and broke, bachelor undergraduate student?

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A few days ago
Mhaerie

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My life has totally changed since I got a masters in speech/language pathology. Before that, the best job I could get was clerical work at about $8/hour (1990’s). It was impossible for me to support my two teenagers, so I had to depend on help from my mom and dad. But they believed in me, so I stuck it out through undergrad school and then through the masters program. It took me 8 years to finish, and I missed out on a lot in my kids’ lives because the program was so rigorous.

Immediately after graduation, my pay doubled. In another 3 years, it had doubled again. Currently my take-home pay is 5,000 a month, and that doesn’t include all my benefits. But it’s not just about the money. My mom and dad are so proud of me. My family and friends, my clients and students treat me with respect.

Most importantly, I’m in a position to help others. Not only is my job a daily opportunity to help others (instead of shuffling papers), I’ve been able to “adopt” two children through Compassion International, which will provide food, health care, and education for them and their families until the children are grown.

I’ve been able to help my single daughter buy a lovely, modest house, so she can pursue her ministry work in the inner city, which does not pay a lot. When my married daughter needs a little help to buy her children clothes, send them to summer camp or get them into swimming lessons or whatever, I am able to contribute.

God has blessed me and now I get to be a blessing, which is the greatest way to spend your life. Keep working hard, but seek a career that you will love, so that at the end of your days you can say, “My life was well spent.” Best wishes!

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5 years ago
lindy
Trust, Love and Respect equals a successful marriage. I don’t see what your education level has to do with it? If you can Respect the high school graduate then you can have a happy relationship.
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