Are you a gemini or something? Had to ask. You must have been born in May

Anyway, what happens is, you are raised by well meaning people, who lived during a time period where roles were shifting. In addition, you may have been from a family where

substance abuse/alcohol abuse took place, which just adds more to it. Think about it. We use to live in a time where there were three classes a day — the basics – – math, reading, writing – go home.

Now, we have to be the best student, have seven classes a day, extra cariculars, match our socks, not to mention we have to people please when we are ACOAs (adult children of alcoholics) = am I close here?

Plus, not many homes have a mom that stays home anymore

So, that is a cultural adjustment as well.