Be careful using the word “punished”.

Be really careful playing favorites – AKA – DON’T!

Consider getting teaching insurance from the NEA.

Never be alone with a student, male or female.

You’ve got to make things as black and white as you can, otherwise you’ll find yourself in trouble with student/parents/administration.

You do not have to treat them like babies, and you do not have to act older than you are–but you do need to be firm. Set reasonable rules and requirements, and expect your students to adhere to these standards. Let them know the consequences of not behaving, and don’t be afraid to follow through and punish them when you need to. In the long run, you will all be much happier for this. You can have fun with your students and enjoy the fact that you are near the same age–but only if it is perfectly clear that at the end of the day, you are the one in charge.

Good luck! :o)

Good Luck!