I am now sixty years old and I still tilt at windmills, but now I pick my battles better. I don’t try to fight when it is obvious I cannot win. I have learned to negotiate instead of blowing up, which gets me further. I also have serious respect for myself and treat others with respect. I have a good reputation and so I get better treatment.

Life is really about learning these skills. What gives you temporary satisfaction (disrespect to authority figures, refusal to accept consequences) may get you temporary satisfaction, but it hurts your future.

Also, please use capitals and periods. I know you can do it. It will make people respect you more. Sorry, that is the way life is going to be. People do judge you on the way you look, act and write.