A few days ago
Calif. Lady

Conflicted about taking kittens away.?

My cat gave birth to 5 kittens 2.1/2 months ago. Now I have 6 cats in my place. In one hand I love them all to pieces. They are so cute, innocent, loveable. They play together, sleep together, and still nurse from their momma cat (basically for comfort ). It’s amazing and nearly miraclous to watch the love among them ( and also my own love for them). I know I cann’t keep 6 cats. They’re already too expensive and time consuming to manage. However, I’m so….. conflicted about taking the kittens to an animal shelter ( keep their mom). I feel guilty about that. I also just plain love them. I know their mom will cry out for them if I take them away ( and it’ll break my heart). But their care and training consumes so much of my time and resources. And, please….., don’t say I should’ve spayed her, I plan to; but what now? I just have such conflicted feeling about taking the kittens away. I don’t seem to be able to reconsile my feeling with my logic. Any thought??

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A few days ago
Kris L

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Why don’t you put an ad in the newspaper or on CraigsList and give the kittens away? You will need to be ‘very careful’ about the people you choose to be ‘adoptive parents’ and may want to take the kitten to them instead of having them pick up the kitten at your place (that way you can tell if they are ‘real new owners’ or are going to ‘sell’ or use the kittens as ‘research subjects) but YOU will be able to ‘choose’ who gets your kittens. And at 10 weeks old, they are ‘perfect’ to give away. I know about ‘wanting to keep all of them’ … but just think about how ‘happy’ their new adoptive owners will be to have a ‘new kitten’ … and then take your cat in and have her spayed … which you said you were going to do anyway, but I’m just telling you in case you ‘forget’ to do that and have more ‘new kittens’ to give away in 3-6 months.
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A few days ago
MindStorm
Yes, you should have known about the pet over population problem before you adopted a pet and let her breed, but now that you are into the issue on more of a personal level I will give you my opinion as an animal lover.

You don’t have the time or money (it sounds like) to care for so many cats. You should not put them in an animal shelter (animal pound) though because it is likely that most of the cats would be unable to find homes and put to sleep. Take them to a no-kill animal shelter in your area or a rescue group. You can find one on Petfinder.com and they will help you. Be nice even if they give you a little speech about this, sadly they see more pets without homes everyday.

Make sure they are old enough to be away from their Mother and the rescue group can tell you that. But take them there soon. Kittens get adopted much faster then adults or adult looking cats. It’s good that you are keeping the Mom cat because she would have a hard time finding a home.

You can get more answers to this question if you post it in the animals/pets/cats area of yahooanswers rather then the teaching area.

It will be sad to say good-bye to the kittens but giving them to a rescue group would be the best way for them to find life-time homes with good people.

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A few days ago
Mitzi1
Hello, I have experienced litters of kittens in my past and you do get attached. However, 6 cats would be a lot to manage. I would try to find homes for them on my own first. If you need to take them to a shelter, kittens are usually adopted quickly because most people want kittens/puppies. I do know there are a lot of cats/kittens available though and I think you would feel better finding the homes for them yourself (meeting the future owner). Your mother cat will soon become tired of all the kittens wanting her attention as they grow older. She will start to avoid (ignor) them at times as a means to help them become more independent . Your kittens are at perfect ages now to new homes. You could always keep the one or two you are unable to find homes for if you cannot part with all of them. I hope this helps.
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A few days ago
That_ blue_ eyed_ Irish_ lass
Please take them to a none kill shelter for adoption. They will keep them until homes are found for the little ones. Many folks will adopt more then one so some may end up with a sibling.

Momma cat will look for them for a few days then she will resign herself to the fact .. it is “cat nature” and natural.

I am glad you are having momma spayed it is the best thing to do.

Your feelings about the whole situation are natural and I know you will miss them too. But in your heart you know it is the right think to do. Good Luck

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A few days ago
Anonymous
Kittens are usually easy to place from a shelter, plus they are neutered or spayed before being placed. Use that as your last resort. Meanwhile, ask friends and neighbors if they know anyone who is looking for a kitten. Send Email to your friends and ask them to please pass it along to their friends [local] – maybe you’ll get lucky.

As to taking the kittens away from their mother – cats have been know to eat their young. They don’t have maternal feelings; they don’t have feelings at all. That is a human attribute.

…and don’t get bent out of shape. I like animals, I just don’t give them human attributes.

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A few days ago
Anonymous
Mothers and their children tug at the heartstrings of even the hardest of people. But, the best thing for your mama cat is to love her and provide her with the best that you can provide. You won’t be able to do that if you are having to spread your resources over many cats. In the wild they would eventually separate anyway. Take them to a no kill shelter and they will find them some great homes with people who will love them as much as you love their mama.

Good luck to you

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A few days ago
Anonymous
Try to find homes for them instead of taking them to the shelter. Maybe keep one of the kittens so momma doesnt get as sad like.

^_^

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A few days ago
Anonymous
The fact is millions of kittens are put to sleep each year…it’s okay to have them put down
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