A few days ago
ashlee♥

New School??? HELP!!!?

Im moving to a new school and I dunno know what to expect. Im leaving the school where i’ve been in my whole life as a student and the past few days so many things started to bother me and I might be sounding silly. First off, im scared that people in the new school might not like me. Im scared that I might not make any friends at all LOL… Basically, im a loud and jolly person at school and im often the one who makes everybody laugh and now i dread that all this may change. Are all my feelings normal or am i just acting overly??? I need you’re help. Thanks in advance.

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A few days ago
K

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Your feeling are COMPLETELY normal. I have gone through this change too, and by the sound of it, you’ll do fine. Here’s what I learned from my mistakes, to have a successful first day of school:

1) Don’t judge people before you know them. This is very important, because remember, you have just come to this school, and you have to give people a chance to get to know them.

2) Don’t be snobby. Smile, be nice, and look happy. More people will approach you with this attitude.

3) Don’t worry about making friends. I know that it sounds bad, but it’s true. Would you rather have good friends, or people that you would call friends, but don’t really like? Most of the time people fit in naturally, it just takes some time. Just remember to not judge people to early, and to be friendly and approachable. If you don’t have friends after a couple of months, don’t worry. Sometimes you can’t click with some people. But if you’re really easy to be friends with, you’ll have great success!!

4) THE GOLDEN RULE: Listen more and talk less. You don’t know anything about this school, or the people that go there, so observe it for the first couple of weeks or so. Get the hang of things. Don’t start criticizing the school or it’s people on the first day.

5) Be clean (goes with approachable). No matter how friendly a new kid might look, armpit sweat and stink won’t bring ANYONE to introduce themselves to you. But you don’t sound like you’d be that kind of person, so just make sure to look approachable.

Anyways, good luck!! It’s really tough on the first day, but don’t worry!! Even if you don’t have success on the first day, eventually you will!!

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A few days ago
sixxtwo42
You’re feeling are perfectly normal. But I am sure it will be all ok.

Just be yourself when you get to the new school. The worst thing you could do is try to be someone you think others may like better. Because sooner or later the real you will show.

And since you said you are a jolly person anyway, I don’t think you have anything to worry about 🙂

Good Luck!!

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A few days ago
Anonymous
Everyone thinks that on the first day of a new school. It’s totally normal. Don’t give anyone a reason not to like you and they’ll like you. You’ll be the new kid for a couple of days, but that’s okay. I went through the same thing as you, and everything turned out fine. You’ll be okay.
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