A few days ago
Ryan M

HELP!?!?!?!? quick answer please (details inside)?

SO yesterday was my first day of high school. It sucked like hell. I ended up coming home crying about it. I wasnt really scared. I didnt have a problem finding any of my classes at all. Its just that all the kids are sooooo immature. And all the upperclassman are almost mature. Some are just so loud and all act gangster. The stairways were so crowded and had to wait like 10 mins to walk up 3 cases of stairs. I came home sweating and crying. The school was so damn hot and it has no ac. I have social anxiety around immature kids because I think that there always going to pick on me about my weight and how I look older for my age. Which they usually pick on me about my weight and quietness.

Im trying to stay positive today and not let them ******* bug me. But I dont know if its going to work.

Any advice?

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A few days ago
onelove_electric

Favorite Answer

It may be embarassing but let your parents know that you hate what is happenning at the moment. Go for a run and get some exercise, regularly. Not only will it help with your weight but oddly exercise releases endorfins which are chemicals that make your body feel good. Also let your parents know about the disorganised teachers because there is no way you are going to be organised and learn effectively if the teachers are the way they are. Open your mouth and say hi to people you recognise whether you they are mature or not. If you show that you are mature in a little while they will realise that they are immature and they will grow up. I am in high school, I’m a girl, but at the beginning of year 7 I was quiet too. After time, I found people that I was comfortable around and now high school is fine. By the way, using a diary is a clever but simple way to remember homework. Carry it with you to classes (a small one is probably best) and as soon as the teacher tells you your homework scribble a legible note on the apppropriate day in your diary.

I hope I helped.

Take each day as it comes and TRY and make the best of it.

Staying positive IS important and if you don’t try and talk to people chances are they aren’t going to bother trying to talk to you.

Good luck.

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A few days ago
ellacoolgirl
Take a deep breath. Ok now remember high school it hard. There are heaps of different kids and it was only your first day. Tomorrow look for more mature kids your age ( there are sure to be some ). As for it being hot and crowded that’s just school you will get used to it. If thing’s don’t get better and you think it’s just a bad school and not right for you ( wait a few weeks and see first) then try talking to your mum about what she thinks maybe you should try a different school that mite be better suited to you. Good luck.
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A few days ago
James H
Continue to stay positive. Here is a detail that you already know, there will always be immature people that you have to deal with and there will always be people who will try to bring you down for any reason under the sun. The thing to remember is that they do it to compensate for some feeling of inadequacy. It won’t be important to you to know what it is, just know that is why it is. After that, nothing they say really matters because it is the ramblings of idiots.
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A few days ago
janey
i was bullied for 2 yrs when i started grammar school,not cos i looked different jus cos my parents werent rich i didnt have a pony an i didnt go on 2 foreign holidays a yr. my mum an dad saved loads to pay for all my equipment for the school the wankers stole everything to make my life even harder,scientific calculator,tennis raquet,hockey stick,reebok trainers even my school scarf.wen my mom complained they told her i must just b careless,THEIR pupils would never steal! i cried everyday until mum an dad couldnt stick it anymore,the school were no help so they moved me. on my 1st day at the new school 2 girls tried to b nasty an i’d had enough,i spoke up for myself an told them i thought they were just silly little girls an 2 grow up. it worked,no1 messed with me after that. really hope this helps,stand up for urself,il b sayin a prayer for u x
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A few days ago
Marion
take it from a punk with health problems don’t let any of them get to you and if they start in don’t put up with it the best thing to do is just site back and take a deep breath
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A few days ago
MakeYourMakeUpRun
Errrmmmm..Well..hmmm..yes..well…

Just try your best to enjoy your time there they aren’t actually picking on you are they??? So they don’t dislike you, dont cry about it the sooner you see the brighter side the better

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4 years ago
stith
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A few days ago
Anonymous
See a psychiatrist
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A few days ago
Anonymous
ignore those ***** kids….. by the way dont cry be tough.
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A few days ago
Anonymous
dont cry fatty, God still loves you.
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