A few days ago
Anonymous

first year in a public school HELP!?

hi, im a christian girl coming out of a freshman year in ptivate highschool. the this is I been going to religious private school all my life. I was going to go to a charter school but that did not work. I want a fresh new start and my last resort is going to a public school known for bad things. And I am honestly scared. I was hyped to go there but a student and a police dude there told me the horror stories. I am nervous what is going to happen to me? how am I going to make GOOD friends the ones who are going to point me in the right direction. I feel it nearly impossible to get ( this is totally oppitional) boyfriend because of the repution of the guys hurting girls. Should I become a nerd? I was popular in my last school. I don’t know what to do!!! I don’t want to become a lasy student. Can anyone help me.

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A few days ago
Anonymous

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okay public school is seriously not that bad. i mean i dont know what kind your going to because some could be bad but not most of the time. and its not like everyone there is a trouble maker. basically you will find good friends and nice people. theres alot of different kinds of people and theres also clubs, sports and other things you could join to meet people. you came out of a christian school, well alot of public schools have a christian club so you could get into something like that. dont become a nerd, it wont help. and dont be nervous because its really not that bad.
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A few days ago
shadows_of_a_girl
Seriously, its called the real world, you should try it, you migh like it. I have gone to a public school my entire life, we have had drug busts like crazy, people spray painted the school for a senior prank, We have had bomb threts and more things that I cant ever explain, like a really good football player, Nik Goldie was on the bus and some girl was giving him a bI0w j0b, he is now a registerd sex offender and not allowd back in the school. But it is a learing experience and I really like it, the durg bust are funny if you arnt the one getting busted, and there are plenty more things to do, and not everyone is bad, just becase something happend dosnt mean that everyone will act that way, and this boy thing? You would are stupid (no offence) to think that just because some guys beat up their girlfriends at that school, dosnt mean that every boy will, I do truly believe that we have some genuine young men in the world, though if we do it barly shows, but you shouldnt worrie, just make sure that you dont get into a abusive realtionship, and If you do, just simply get out of it and get help and consuling if need be. And let me tell you one thing missy, being a nerd is not a bad thing, they are the ones who spend spare time in the library, get their homework done early, Get good grades, and become successful, may I introduce you to the bill gates’ of the world, the most successful people dont slack off, they get thier work done, even in bad schools. And either way, weather or not you are popular is decided on what you give into, in most schools, and from the sounds of it in schools like the one that you are going to the popular people are usually the ones who smoke dope, have sex and are just really bad people, but everyone likes them because everyone thinks that what they are doing is cool. Also, if you dont get caught up in the bad things of school you might just be the next bill gates when you get out of schoo, only you would be a girl. So basicly dont get mixed up with the wrong people, befriend the good people, say no to bad things because the things that ‘everyone is doing’, are probly the things that only a small part of the school are doing, So if you know the difference between right and wrong, you will do just fine, good luck, and God Bless.
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4 years ago
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don’t be intimidated by potential of all the persons. detect a pal appropriate away, somebody who would be there to teach you a thank you to out with any questions. attempt speaking to somebody you take a seat next to at school, or close on your locker. i can only think of how distinctive it is going to be for you! talk over with counselors or instructors in case you like any help. don’t be affraid to ask questions. all of us replaced into only as scared while they have been in extreme college for the 1st time too, they might desire to all understand. in case you have a question at school, only develop your hand… in case you do no longer use your voice you need to get misplaced or fall at the back of. superb of success!!!!!!! =]
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