A few days ago
John P.

Silent treatment?

There’s this girl that I’ve become sort of like best friends with. The reason is ’cause we’re really the only friends each other has right now. Well, I really like her a lot and I think she likes me back the same. She’s come to my house like 4 times already with her 2 sisters. Whenever we talk on the phone it lasts pretty long (7 hours the most). At church, we always talk to each other even when we’re in a group. Sometimes in the morning session at church, she’ll stay quiet and not really seem like she wants to talk. I ask her what’s wrong and she says she’s hungry. Could hunger lead her to give me the silent treatment? I might confess my feelings for her soon and I’m not sure how to go about it.

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A few days ago
Anonymous

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hungryiness could lead to people being moody.. dnt worry about she probw was hungry! well CONGRATS! she def likes you , and i suggest u should ask her out.. the first step is make friends and you’ve past that step! now the next step is to ask her to the movies etc.

best wishes and goodluck 🙂

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A few days ago
Antonio
Oh my friend, who can really figure out what is going through a woman’s mind? I think she is just being a bit shy or distant- this does not mean she does not like you. Maybe she does not know you well enough yet or you are too close for comfort whereas on the phone or with her sisters, she is more outgoing.

Give her her space (and hunger). Don’t confess any feelings just yet- be friendly but if she does not want to talk, let her not talk and leave her to her thoughts. Give her a couple of weeks. Then, you may want to ask her to go eat with her (and her sisters) after church sometime if she professes hunger.

But go slowly- she may be shy and unsure of her feelings for you. Be the nice gentleman you are and be patient.

Good luck

Antonio

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A few days ago
Anonymous
I think I have an idea of why she might be quiet in the morning sessions. If she likes you, she’s probably a bit shy at first and then as the day goes on, she feels more comfortable. You probably make her nervous and she might now know what to say to you, hence the silence. Don’t be too forward, just be subtle cos you don’t wanna scare her away. Try little things like holding eye contact for that little bit longer and just being sweet and nice in general.
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A few days ago
Iupiter Stator
For heavens sake, you’re in a church. Maybe she’s talking to God, and you don’t wanna compete with the Big guy.
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