Bring a craft, make cookies together, play twister, board game & u and the three on a team vs the eleven year old.

It is not easy. The 11 yr old will be a lot easier just ask him/her what they would like to do, draw/paint pictures, play a game. The 3 yr. old you will have to watch very carefully. You can turn around for one second and they can be filling up the bathtub and trying to get into. You really need to watch over them carefully. If you can divide your time, ask the 11 yr to play by themselves for a little while and if the 3 yr. takes a nap, devote your time to the 11 yr. Don’t be talking on the phone or watching TV all the time. When I watch kids, I just put a TV or radio on for background noise. So it sounds like there is always somewhere there. Hope this helps.

Bring something that relates to their age!

Like for the 3 year old bring a toy that a 3 year old would enjoy

and for the11 year old bring something cool like a DVD that you and him/her could watch and that is also appropriate for the 3 year old and then its all in the bag!

Trust me Im 12 years old! I know what to do!