A few days ago
fanny bandits

I’m having a problem with my boyfriend.?

I did ask about this earlier, but I wasn’t precise.

I’m fourteen, he’ll be fourteen in September.

We’ve been dating 7 months as of yesterday.

He gave me that special first hug… In month six. >.< Yea, you can probably already see my problem. He's told me he loves me and stuff, but that was over the phone. Things are always easier over the phone. So we're both EXTREMELY shy, and both don't want to make the first move but do, you know? He hasn't kissed me at all, and I need some advice on how to show him I'm ready for more than one hug every six months. >_< So, any suggestions? He's really sensitive and a great guy, not those bone-headed jocks you find every turn you make. I'm also his first girlfriend, so... Yea. He told me himself he wanted to wait for the right girl, which was really sweet. ^_^ Anyways, I'm off track. Any suggestions?

Top 3 Answers
A few days ago
Anonymous

Favorite Answer

You’re boyfriend sounds like me when I was 14 (im 22 now). First of all, realize that you’re only 14 years old, and you really dont need things to go too far. Secondly and related to the first comment, when you start to do more than hugging, eg. kissing, things tend to move very quickly and before you know it you will be progressing faster than you want them to.

What I really think you should do is take the first step of you’re young-adult life and talk with you’re boyfriend about it. Stroke is ego a bit, dont complain on hows hes such a prude, rather tell him how irresistable he is, etc. etc. This may be tricky at first because you both are so shy, however what you both may not realize is that you’re shyness stems from insecurity and inexperience, these things will come with time. Good luck

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A few days ago
Anonymous
just kiss him. it’s nerve wracking at first but once it over with it a lot better. get over your shyness and make the first move. Talk to him about it too, if you are to afraid to say something then nothing is going to change.
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A few days ago
BarrelGirl
Why is this under Education????
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