its referring to instant gratification.. it means that you are only worried about the present and what makes you happy right now–laugh now.. and then what ever comes later just comes. bad or good, i’ll worry about it later–cry later. hope that helps

It’s a saying to help cope with a bad situation. When something bad happens to you, you may want to cry. But good advice says to laugh about it now, because lets face it, sooner or later, we can all look back and laugh. This saying says, Laugh first, cry later, as in, find the good in the situation first…then if you’re still upset, cry later.

I think…?!

Hey I got a great answer to this one! Heres a prime example!

I went to my disabled sisters house today and cooked her breakfast I made toast and bacon and beans and egg! I dished up and closed the oven door.

Around 20 minutes later I could smell something dodgy, realised the cooker was on fire, tried to put it ut, my sister said put water on it, so I did! It went woosh, flames all over the place!

We laughed and laughed, although it was NOT funny.

Since I have been home I have cried……….

The moral of this story is, sometimes we laugh to cover our nerves, but when the reality or the shock sets in we cry…………..

Lady, the good thing is he is not your husband. Please go and search the term “abuse” and you should get the answer. See, there are some people who are abusive, in actions, deeds..very violent too. They will love at the same time. BUT if you want your life to be safe and peaceful keep away from such people. It is damn clear that this guy is abusive. Today he is banging things, for SURE he will hit you tomorrow. These abusive people have another habit – of saying SORRY all the time. But that means nothing. They love a lot, they abuse a lot. Will you take it till someone beats you in the name of love??? And He is NEVER going to change, unless some miracle happens – this is sad but true. Problem is, these people or their family are not willing to accept that they have serious problem of abusing women. So, leave this sh*t here itself. You have a big life ahead. See, this is a very very serious matter. If to leave this guy you have to change your job, go ahead – do that. Stop talking to him, break all your communication with him. It is an addiction, get out of it IMMEDIATELY. If you are from India, you could watch one movie – Provoked. To know how men can say they are so loving at the same time be highly abusive. Make sure to watch this movie. Especially in India women have no idea about what an abuse is…they take all insult, calling names, bad words…hitting untill it gets onto their nerves…still for the name of the relationship they drag it…and spend rest of their lives crying forever. For God sake, today it is just your life, but tomorrow it will be the life of your kids that will be at stake just because you will have to face an idiot who has no respect or basic courtesy towards a woman, especially his wife or partner. It is far better to be without a partner than to be with a partner who makes you cry everyday. Bottom line is – you do not need them, they are parasites – they need you badly. But they will make you realize as if you will die if they get out of your life. Keep away from them. Take help from you father or family to keep away from such a guy. Love is a far aspect, we at least need be able to live and let others live. We have choices in life, often we ignore them and what happens next is far more worse to imagine. So it is upto you. You will decide, but do whatever at right time..Good luck, take care!

spontaneous actions

ie:you blow all your money on one horse at the race

because it seemed a good idea at the time

then in a quieter moment later in that day

you are at home on your own

and suddenly you reflect back on

what you did,and then begin to wish you never

even set foot in the damn place

and would like to punch yourself a few times

for being reckless and irresponsible

My parents used to say it when we were little, and horse-playing (usually late at night when 8-year olds should be in bed but it’s holidays). Usually we all laughed and played until it got so rough that someone got hurt. I wish I was still that young and carefree!

It means that if you act on impulse without thinking about the consequences of your actions, you may have regrets in the future.

It is like the drunk, he may be laughing now, but in the morning when he is hung over, headaches, covered in vomit and lying in his own urine on his front steps, he will be , or should be, crying.

(yet he goes out and does it again……………)

It means that you may enjoy what you’re doing at the moment, but you won’t later.

It means that if you treat current things/issues/problems in a trivial way, you may regret it later.