A few days ago
Consultant

What should I do to make this semester in college better?

My boyfriend and me have been together for a year and a half. Both juniors in college. My hometown is 3 hours away from the college, his is 20 minutes. I stayed here this summer to be with my boyfriend. I kinda lost everything else I have here including myself. He says that I’m too attached now, but he used to be just as attached because neither of us have ANYTHING here besides each other anymore. i don’t even get called and asked to go out and do things with people since I started dating him. I guess we messed up and sorta isolated ourselves. I chose being with him over my friends because he would get jealous if I went out to a party and there were guys there. I do have a job on campus and im involved in a few clubs, but as far as “socially” i don’t do anything. if im not with him i sit in my room. lately though, we don’t do anything at all, we don’t go out and do things like we used to. its like we’re bored & dont know what to do. if i lost him id lose everything. what should i do?

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A few days ago
Anonymous

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Sounds like you need to get out there and be with other people. Why not do it when he is out with his family and friends from high school. As for his jealousy, you are just gonna have to tell him what you want and be clear on what behavior you are willing/not willing to tolerate.

“Groups” can always use one more person. I am sure there are other people on campus that are feeling isolated as well. Now that you have identified the problem, you need to REACH out to others by putting yourself out there. Others may look at you and think you and your boyfriend don’t want to be approached.

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