Because you’re a bright girl and are are heading in the right direction with amazing marks and having a great career lined up ahead and all of a sudden you want to go in the complete opposite direction by degrading yourself and putting your life to waste.

Stick with the right path that will allow you to become successful and do not allow your desires take over your judgement of what is right and wrong.

There is a stigma that comes along with the idea of a woman, or young lady, pole dancing. No parent wants this life for their daughter because of this stigma. Women who pole dance, or are strippers, tend to get no respect from men, are belittled, and often are on the receiving end of violence. If I were you, I would take the classes (it can be a great work out), and possibly go to a few places and experience pole dancing as an observer before you take the plunge. I wish you luck, and in the long run, you should do what is right for you. If pole dancing is what you want to do, then do it.

I suppose Mike used to be proper. There had been well lap dances and dangerous ones. I as soon as watched a pole dance, in which the gals hair fell off. LOL! Boy, did she take a few warmness for that. One of the funniest matters i’ve visible there. I have had each, however as a man, i will be able to surely decide upon the lap dance. Hey, Mike, we could pass bro! First dance is my deal with friend!

Pole dancing as a form of exercise is acceptable, but actually performing in front of an audience is not.

If I were in a relationship with a woman like you, I’d dump her. I would lose all respect for her. It’s your life so do what makes you happy, but it might come back to bite you in the tush.

Well, your “nobody wants me to do it” line is a little vague. It sounds like the “Noboby” part could be anyone from your friends to your family and loved ones. Yes, you are beautiful no doubt about that, but I think TODAY’S society misconstrudes the “POLE” aspect of it with a stripper/non-educated, money hungry, lady of the night. Ultimately it is your decision whether you want to pursue that challange. Now, what you do with that knowledge will dictate your future. And I think this is why your peers/friends/family disapproves.

Best of luck. Let me/us know what your decision is and how you over came the negativity.

Ps: Besides.. It’s great excercise!!!!

Anyone who tells you not to do it is probably projecting their own stereotypes about pole dancing. This is not an action that would hurt anybody, so why shouldn’t you do it. If you want to take the classes just do it, there is no need to consult anyone. Good luck to you!

Nobody wants you to do it probably because most people associate poles with strippers automatically and they might feel that you are degrading yourself by dancing like that.