Pathetic!

As for your question…

There is no definitive answer – everyone is different. It may work, it may mot work. The child may use both as a role model. It’s all a matter of opinion.

Both parents will be role models whether you want them to or not. Probably there’s an advantage here in the sense that your child will recognize that goodness does not equal education or income. I’ll bet your blue collar husband pushes them in school just as hard as you do.

What about spiritual aspects? You did not mention them, but consider them as well.

Your dilemma is not a unique one, as many more women now attend college than men. Try to find examples of others who have worked through similar issues to see what set them apart from those who were not successful. You might find that education was not the decisive factor.

Kids should look to the positive characteristics of both parents.

Good luck, it all just depends, but it is certainly possible.

Just because one parent didn’t get a higheducation doesn’t mean they won’t be good role model, you would hope that they were good, kind people.

Values and morals are what people should worry about modelling to their kids, not how to carry out their schooling.

Just dont let financial issues of “who puts the food on the table” get between the two of you stand in the way because then you might have problems

all the best