A few days ago
onedivinekiss

Freshman making friends at college?

Its my first year of college and my second week too and I still dont have anyone to “sit with”. What are some good tips for making friends at college? And how can I overcome being so shy?

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A few days ago
iSpeakTheTruth

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For starters, get off the computer. You wont make any school friends that way. Minimize chatting with people from back home, as nostalgic and comforting as that is, your life has now changed so you need to put forth the effort required. It is rather tough I know for someone who is shy, but a little discomfort now is going to work your way positively eventually. Don’t give up. One way I used to do it was to organize study groups. You meet people on a more personal level that way and get better grades!
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A few days ago
warneker
Look into the various different organizations that your university offers. I met pretty much all of my friends through the Lutheran Campus Ministry group.

Another good way to meet people is to just introduce yourself to the people you sit next to in your classes. I also met a few friends that way. Even if you don’t do anything with them outside of class, it’ll at least give you someone to talk to before the class starts.

Sporting events are also a good way to meet people. I’m not really much of a sports fan, but I still go to be supportive of my team. I’ve met several intersting people just by standing next to them and starting a converstation with them about the game. I don’t ever see them outside of sporting events, but it’s still nice to see familiar faces in the student section every once in a while.

Mingling at campus events in general is a really good way to meet people because all sorts of different people will be there.

I have the same problem about being shy and it was hard for me to overcome it. I can still be shy at times, but I’m a lot better than I used to be. I started by forcing myself to talk to people I didn’t know – like classmates. Even though it sounds pretty cliche, a good way to overcome shyness is to try to find people who have the same interests as you so you can have a foundation for converstations.

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A few days ago
Book_lover
Just be yourself. Go up to a guy or a girl and introduce yourself to them. I know it will be hard. It was hard for me to meet friends.

But after you introduce yourself it will seem like its going good.

I am in my 2nd year at a Community College. And the more people you make the more friends you will have. Trust me.

I hope this works.

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A few days ago
ConnorWilhem3
Try to find an interest or affinity group. College becomes very segregated quickly especially at schools large than 100 people per class.

You seem to be a minority. Find a group of kids from your minority group. Or if you like theater or politics you could go to one of those meetings.

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A few days ago
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When you go to eat, just go up to a table and ask if you can eat with them. If they say no, then you don’t wanna be friends with them anyway.

You can also just go up and down your dorm floor and introduce yourself to new people.

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