A few days ago
Mollie

Is my professor coming on to me?

He just emailed me saying he decided to give me 2 extra points on our test because I corrected a mistake he made in his lecture. This is not the first time he’s given me bonus points and no one else. He is also always congratulating me on being the “hardest worker”. He’s always calling on me and using me as an example. He emails me a lot just to “get my thoughts” and “check in” with me. I’m 21, he’s 29. I’m beginning to think he likes me here….

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A few days ago
remowlms

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Yes, I think he does like you, especially because of the e-mails you mention. Be careful around him…
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A few days ago
Anonymous
Go for it and get an easy ‘A’ LOL

Maybe he does; he is a professor not an alien why is this different than any other situation. You are both adults and if you like him then make a move.

If you don’t want the attention, try to be nice and polit but don’t encourage any of this. After the class is over then you will move on.

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A few days ago
NikkiButler
Kinda sounds like he is interested. Bonus points are good, as long as he doesn’t expect any favors in return. Lets say he actually comes on to you and you deny him, then what? Does he knock your grade down? I would want out of that situation immediatly! Just get through the class and pray you don’t have another class with him!
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A few days ago
Anonymous
He probably does, but more importantly how do you feel about this. Does this attention from your teacher make you feel special? Its not uncommon to have student/teacher feelings but be warned most end badly,mainly because you are not seeing him as an equal but as someone on a pedastal and he is fanning these feelings by giving you xtra points and using you as an example.Be very careful here .
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A few days ago
Anonymous
Yes, I think he likes you. He wants to have sex with you. I’m not kidding! If you don’t want sex with him then don’t hang around him after class. He will surely put the moves on you girl. You may be smart and that is true, but he’s make too big of a deal of it. He just wants to get on your good side. If you decide to pursue it wait until you are out of his class this semester and you are not his student anymore. Don’t let him take advantage of the situation or you now.
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A few days ago
Lorin Margo
he definitely likes you. this is not normal behavior for a teacher. he shouldn’t be e-mailing you to get your thoughts, to be quite honest. that’s completely inapprorpriate.

Honestly? just keep it cool. finish the semester and move on. don’t think of it as coming on to you. think of it as the easiest A you’ll ever earn in college. just don’t let him take it any step further. if you see that his comings are getting more and more inapproriate, it might be time to report him. but if he’s just being friendly and has a school crush on him. take the A.

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A few days ago
Zoi
Yes, probably he likes you.

The question is: does he simply feel attracted to you or he wants to come close to you so that something else happens?…

And the second question is:

How are you going to manage this situation if it gets serious?

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Answer very politely and informaly his mails, showing your greatfullness.

To be honest, he doesn’t seem dangerous to me, he is trying to cope with his feelings in a descent way.

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A few days ago
lel
dude, i think he likes you. teachers are busy, right? and he allocates time for you. okay so it might be an easy A but what if he…. i don’t know ‘moves’ on you. or what if you like another guy in his class, and he’s the ‘jealous type’, what if he fails the student? if he ‘advances’ on you, just keep collected and maybe you should try to detach yourself away like change you’re e-mail ad? but maybe if you don’t reply, he gets mad. i mean after all, they like can damage your grades. or worse, you’re class calls you the teacher’s pet because he keeps praising you. maybe sooner or later, they’ll catch on.

p.s this is just my opinion!! i hope i helped, good luck!!!:) i’m sorry if it’s bad…

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A few days ago
helplessromatic2000
So what if he likes you? Youre a likeable person! As long as he doesnt ask you to “work” for those extra points i wouldnt worry.
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A few days ago
Anonymous
Definetly.Try changing ur email address before he tries anything else.
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