A few days ago
Anonymous

i was tutoring this kid and i bent down and he saw my…?

ok so im tutoring this kid in like 6th grade. hes a boy and he’s like 12 or something. so he needs like help in math or something. so today i slept in so i was rushing to get to the school and i take shower in the mornings. and apparently, i forgot to wear my bra. but i didnt notice. (stupid me) anyhow i have pretty big boobs like a C cup or something. so i think he noticed i wasnt wearing a bra, so he dropped his pencil. at that time i didnt notice that this was on purpose. so then i said “ill pick that up for you” and he just smiled. so i bent over and i sense his eyes on me. i just ignore it though, thinking its just my eyes. then, at the end of the “tutoring time,” he said “bye ms. J. oh, and by the way, you have really nice boobs.”

what do i do now???

Top 9 Answers
A few days ago
secretservice

Favorite Answer

don’t bring it up and wear a sweater next time
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A few days ago
Anonymous
You are a C cup and you forgot to wear a bra?! Wow, you need to chill a bit. If your life is that hectic you are probably extremely stressed. You need to get organized and figure out what you can and cant commit to and still stay sane.

But I would talk to him and his parents. Just let his parents know what happened. I am sure they don’t want him talking like that to anyone, especially you or any other authority figure. When you talk to him you need to emphasis that what he did could be considered sexual harassment and could get him in big trouble in the future if he does things like that to anyone.

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EDIT- (read profile) Wait you are in middle school? Why are you tutoring? Why does this kid have to call you Ms J if you are only 1 or 2 years older than him?

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A few days ago
mommy
how can someone with such big boobs forget to wear a bra? maybe you did it on purpose… he is 12, don’t stress, next time put one on and don’t wear loose clothes .. duh

So i now see that you are the same age as him… You should not be LIKE tutoring any ways LIKE for real…

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A few days ago
missbeckythacher
next time wear a bra and tell his folks that he made a rude, inappropriate comment about your chest. what do you expect from a 12y.o. boy? i wouldn’t turn it into a federal case, if it was me–just learn from your mistake and dress in a professional manner when you are acting as a role model for children. give him another chance but if he is rude in future, i would drop him from my tutoring list.
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A few days ago
I ♥ FMA!
Wow, I don’t know any 6th grader that fresh. 0.0 wow. well, at the time I probably would have said “EXCUSE ME??” and told them that was completely inappropriate. Easier said then done though. I’m so sorry for you, thats awful! wow
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A few days ago
Lizabeth
if it comes up again i would just say, “um sweetie don’t you think that’s a bit inappropriate?” and just leave it at that. Good luck girl!
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A few days ago
Anonymous
Do nothing; possibly you do actually have nice boobs. In this case he demonstrates a penchant for observation coupled with a natural ability to improvise.

You on the other hand will probably do well in life since most American males are obsessed with…boobs. lol

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A few days ago
Anonymous
charge 25% extra
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A few days ago
blokblok1960
“So you’re tutoring…..and use such phrases as……”in like 6th grade”……..he’s like 12 or something”…………”needs like help in math”….”like, like, like????????….VALLEY GIRL………NOT. I hope you are not tutoring English.
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