#1 By letting her do this as she wants, it allows her to express HERSELF, which in turn lets her growin different ways then you are able to as her teacher. You never know, her dressing this way as a child, could lead her to a career in the fashion industry when she is older.

#2 I know it is hard to watch someone be picked on, knowing if you had done something, they may not be picked on. But I feel some times being picked on as a child truely helps a person grow to an adult. I know in grade school and although way up to high school (although around 7th grade I started doing it on purpose) I was almost always being picked on. But I have found that it truely has helped me as an adult. I am able to handle criticism better then most other people I know. I have learned how to seperate personal from professional life. I feel those two major (and difficult lessons) for adults, I learned early on in life becuase of being picked on.

You can’t be her protector, she has to learn to protect herself, and in all honesty, how can you be sure she doesn’t know exactly what she is doing?

My question to you is, why are you concerned with “helping” someone that you don’t knwo personally? I guess you could just be a genuinely nice person. I’m a cynic….

talk to her that some other dress may look more better than that..suggesst some and make her feel comfortable.

this would solve the problem

DONOT write your name in the letter or give any hint who you are.

ps : its a bit long advice, but i hope it’ll be helpful to you.

please focus on the CAPITALISED words