I understand your problem! I was not the most popular person in school either. But i did make a few friends and i would rather have had those couple of really close dependable wonderful friends than a lot of superficial ones. Well, anyway, the point is I’m sure you can make a couple of good friends and the first answer is not a bad idea. Joining extra curricular activities will not only look good on your record in the long run, but it will also provide more opportunities for you to work closely with others and meet more people with a better chance of forming friendships. the biggest lesson that you need to learn from this, dear, is that you have a problem, and that you must find a way to tackle it. Running away from it will not solve anything. it will only make you more comfortable with running away from your next problem. Learning how to solve issues will give you pride, confidence, strength, intelligence, endurance, and good problem-solving skills in the future!! Good luck, and i hope this was quite inspiring for you in that you now have a goal toward which you are aiming to achieve!!!

School can be tough, especially when you don’t feel you fit in. But listen up- life is not about a popularity contest. It’s about staying true, learning new lessons, and getting the most out of every day. Once you graduate, there will be A LOT of people that you will never talk to or see again. It’s been 4 years since I finished high school and can say that I only keep in touch with one of my friends from back then, and even now I don’t ever see him, only through monthly emails.

School is about learning, not socializing, and I believe it may be best to just deal with your current lack of friends (try talking to someone new, you could find that it’s really not as bad as you think it is). The curriculum could be different too, and there are a lot of things you could miss when you transfer. Keep your future in mind- the high school drama completely melts away once it’s over and you’re faced with the real world. You will realize how stupid it all was once the kid games are over.

Moving to a new school has many positive attributes, but if you are moving ONLY because you have a limited amount of friends then you need to look deeper as to why you have this problem.

I hate to say this, but if you don’t have many friends at your current high school, then the same problem will occur at the school in which you want to attend. The problem may lie in the way you treat people. Ask yourself if you are being open to people, allowing them to become your friend. Live life like there is no tomorrow. Don’t worry about next year, worry about the matters at hand and have fun.

If you continuously run from your problems at this early of an age, it will become a habit that will stick with you for the rest of your life. Buckle down, talk to the people who you’ve never noticed before, you’d be surprised how many people you would actually get along with.

Moving can be more stressful. I say stay at the same school and make new friends there. I’m sure you can maybe join a club or a team. Good luck!