high school: first day?
how am i supposed to act?
i know i know, be yourself.
but this kind of thing is different.
plus, ill probably end up wearing way too much makeup trying to get myself to look perfect, even though normally i stick with some mascara and foundation and sometimes a pretty lip gloss.
also, all of my friends are really pretty, and im sure there will be even prettier girls in high school. how can i keep up with looking as good as they do everyday?
AND HOW SHOULD I DO MY HAIR?
please help with everything, prefferably people who have been through this kind of thing already.
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Don’t over do it. Stick to your normal make-up routine. Don’t start getting up at 4 am to do your hair and make-up. You’ll fall asleep during class, and thats not good. You want to look like yourself, not someone else.
For your hair, do something that will stay all day and that is comfortable. If it annoys you to wear your hair down, then don’t wear it down to school. Also, factor Gym Class into planning your hair style. You want it to still look nice after Gym (I’m not sure if your school makes you shower after class or not. My school doesn’t, so you need to quickly fix it after class and go).
If you are nervous about classes, make sure you go to the Freshman orentation if your school offers one. It’ll give you a chance to walk the halls and find your classes without a bunch of older kids shoving past you. Also, do your homework!! It helps so much, and it really doesn’t take that much time. Another thing, don’t do drugs or drink. It only hurts you.
Finally, RELAX!!! High School is great. You’ll be fine. And, your friends will be there with you.
As to your hair and makeup … stick with what you know on the make-up. What’s familiar, then you won’t stress. As to your hair, ask your parents if you can go the day before and get a really great cut and style (but make sure it’s something YOU can work with when you get home). That will give you a little self confidence boost.
At this point, you may not believe it but school is much more than your hair and make-up! It’s all about your attitude and what you want to make out of it! Take the opportunity to join a sports team if possible. Join a club, sing in the choir.
If you stress about being the prettiest, it will be a VERY long four years!
So, the best thing to do is stay tight with your friends and try to be friends with other people. Look good, stick with what you know, don’t over-do anything. You don’t wanna look like a nerd or a stuck up girl who thinks she’s better than everyone else. Be friendly and make people like you. You’re much better off being yourself than a fake. You should also get involved in clubs, sports and anything else you like. Stay focused in classes. Freshman year is important, if you mess up then, it’s hard to bounce back.
Hope this helps. I’ve been through the freshman jitters.
2. Act yourself, never change yourself because you don’t think you’ll fit in, believe me, you’ll find plenty of friends.
3. Try your best not to put on too much make-up, you’ll look unnatural & fake, just a touch of what you normally put on will do.
4. Make a good impression by being nice & friendly.
5. Go to get your hair cut, & ask the person what they think will look best on you, & make sure to talk to them so you know how to style it each day, I recommend layers, becuase all you have to do is brush it in the morning, and it looks great!
Then, stick with your age group—ignore those upperclassmen, if you can. They have no interest in you at all.
Stick with your class-level, get to know them one by one, and experience the fun of being right where you are. It will never come again—these people will never be as happy or excited about life as they are now—you won’t either.
But of course you won’t get it “right” the first day, week, or month. There’s no reason for you to try to, either. If you do, and are constantly criticizing yourself, you will miss all the drama around you. Pretend you are stepping into a river—you will float down the river, and have a blast. But this is also the fastest changing river in your life, and no place to be worrying about details of makeup!!! Most of these people you will never see later in your life again—but the fun memories will shape your life.
Also, the people who look best and fit in best in High School usually look out of it, and don’t fit in in later life, so don’t change yourself.
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