A few days ago
Classico

Daughter is been bullied by teacher she is 9y Is there any parent from the local schools in Ceres, CA?

She is 9y.There was a assignment that she did not understand,the teacher wrote a note stated that my daughter did not want to do the assignment, the next day I wrote back to her that it was a misunderstanding and the teacher put my daughter in a separate room from the other children,my daughter told me she did not know what was going on and the teacher started slamming the door close,at the same time she was screaming at her,I cant believe you told your mother you did not know how to do it!After that my daughter was escorted by the vice principle and the teacher like if he was a criminal to the office,interrogated by the principle, the principle had by daughter call her grandma as my daughter was crying not know what was happen., my daughter has been urinating on her self at school since she has been in that class.A parent that works at that school has a child and my daughter told me he always cries and every time the mom pop in class the teacher treats him the best.what do I do?

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A few days ago
hope03

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Pull your child from this class IMMEDIATELY. Your child is showing extreme signs of distress, and yes, teachers can cause this. I know. I’m a teacher. I have witnessed many unfair, distressing acts inflicted upon students by teachers.

You MUST assert your parental rights, and believe me, as a parent you have ALL the rights on your side.

First, collect as many accounts of what is going on in the classroom from other students and parents. You need firsthand witnesses, if possible.

Second, take your child to a counselor to help deal with this because it will negatively affect her attitude towards school and thus, keep her from learning.

Also, why did the principal have your daughter call her grandmother and not you?

Start to document everything. Date, time, place, event, witnesses.

Demand a classroom switch immediately. A child could make up stories or lie about events, but a child at this age WILL NOT URINATE on herself and risk HUMILIATION IN FRONT OF HER PEERS just to be stubborn. This is extreme stress, we’re talking about. Her teacher is causing it.

If the principal refuses, go over his/her head and go report this to both the school board and the superintendent. Seek legal advice.

Your child’s mental and emotional well-being are at stake. I’ve seen too many children suffer at the hands of their teachers (not physically, but emotionally.)

Stand up for your child NOW. You have to fight for your rights when it comes to the school system. It bares its teeth, but you have the bite.

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A few days ago
Tammi B
Remove the child from the teacher’s classroom. If the principal will not allow it, got to the superintendents office. Keep going up the chain of command. If that doesn’t work, put a voice activated recorder in your daughter’s backpack and see what you get on that. It may not be legal in CA, but it might give you some leverage. Then, if you have to, you can leak it to the press.
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A few days ago
Tino
Ask to meet the teacher and the Principal all toghether and find out what is going on.

Take your daughter to school and talk to some of the other parents. See if they are having similar problems. Remember you are only hearting one side of the story. SO be patient.

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A few days ago
countess almasy
WHY are you wasting your time here?! Your child has been traumatized, and I suspect she is not the only one. Go to a PTA meeting, call the school board, talk to your child’s schoolmates’ parents, tell the principle you want your child’s class switched immediately…something! Maybe even take a parenting class or a common sense class…God gave you a child…it is your job to protect it!
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A few days ago
kiki
This teacher is exhibiting inappropriate behavior. Your child should not be subjected to that kind of punishment.

Talk to your counselor at school, and if possible, get her out of that class.

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A few days ago
Anonymous
Please speak to the school prinicipal..

That is very upsetting!

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Just keep supporting your daughter!!!!

As parents, our #1 JOB is to SUPPORT and LOVE our KIDS!

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Good luck….

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