A few days ago
Classico

Daughter is been bullied by teacher she is 9y Any parent from the local schools in Ceres, CA?

She is 9y.She had an assignment that she did not understand,the teacher wrote a note stated that my daughter did not want to do the assignment, the next day I wrote back to her that it was a misunderstanding and the teacher put my daughter in a separate room from the other children,my daughter told me she did not know what was going on and the teacher started slamming the door close,at the same time she was screaming at her,I cant believe you told your mother you did not know how to do it!After that my daughter was escorted by the vice principle and the teacher like if he was a criminal to the office,interrogated by the principle, the principle had by daughter call her grandma as my daughter was crying not know what was happen., my daughter has been urinating on her self at school since she has been in that class.A parent that works at that school has a child and my daughter told me he always cries and every time the mom pop in class the teacher treats him the best.what do I do?

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A few days ago
glurpy

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Omg, what a horrible situation to be in!

I’m assuming by 9y you mean she’s 9?

Does she have friends in the class who could back it up? Does she know the name of the parent who works there whose child is also being bullied? It’d be good if you could somehow get together with that boy and his mother. Do you have a small tape recorder that could be snuck in? Have you talked to the principal about what’s going on?

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A few days ago
smm_8514
I think you need to set up a meeting with the teacher first. You may also want to include the principal and/or a neutral third person. Explain your side of the situation and ask for the teacher’s side of the story. I think it is wrong for any teacher to yell at a student. Discuss your concerns and any special needs that your daughter may have. It sounds like your daughter is facing anxiety in the classroom as a result of the teacher’s actions. As a result, I bet that your daughter will have a much harder time participating and learning if she is afraid and doesn’t know what to expect. Just remember to keep a cool and level head. Don’t try to place blame, instead focus on a solution. If a solution can not be reached, you might want to ask that your daughter be moved to a different classroom.

Good luck with your situation. I would hope that the school acts in the best interest of your child.

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A few days ago
Anonymous
First, I would document everything that has happened. Then, I would arrange a meeting with the principal and the teacher. If this didn’t work I would speak with the superintendent. If the teacher is bullying the child, you need have her moved to another teacher. I would also ask to sit in the classroom. I am a teacher and if I was having trouble with a student; not saying that your child is trouble, but I would encourage the parent to see what is going on in class on a daily basis. If this doesn’t work, please have her moved to another class. She can’t continue to urinate on herself. That leaves her open for ridicule by other students. Then, her self-esteem, what little she has left from the teacher picking on her will be so low.
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A few days ago
Ugly Betty
If that was my child I would be at that teacher in a heart beat, not physically anyway. You have every right to defend your child. And if the principal doesn’t side with you then go straight to the education board and get a lawyer. When confronting the teacher, make sure your child is there so that she can see you defending her and that she knows she has someone on her side. Also, request immediately that she be put in another class, you do have that right. Check the student handbook and laws they give out every year. What that teacher is subjecting your child to is Verbal and Emotional Abuse to a Minor – THAT IS A CRIME!
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4 years ago
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do away with the youngster from the instructor’s lecture room. If the first received’t enable it, were given to the superintendents workplace. save going up the chain of command. If that would not paintings, placed a voice activated recorder on your daughter’s backpack and word what you get on that. it might want to no longer be criminal in CA, besides the undeniable fact that it might want to grant you with some leverage. Then, once you would possibly want to, you are able to leak it to the click.
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A few days ago
Stop in the name of glove
I’m not local, but i would call the school, and get in the PTA meetings. It is best to have a private meeting with the teacher to clear things up about it.. Also, tell the teacher that she/he should have called you immediatly about it, and that yelling at such a young girl was wrong. Be nice about it, nothing will happen if you start screaming at the teacher
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A few days ago
Anonymous
could this be a racial thing? maybe that teacher IS a criminal. i’m pretty sure that’s a crime. definitely something worth taking up with police or some other form of authority. there could be other things going on with more students and different stories. is there any sexual assault that you don’t know about? let your daughter know that none of it is her fault. hopefully this will be dealt with properly.
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A few days ago
Danny Eire
Is this greta britain or Ireland becuase if so this is ludicris. This is 2007 .Report that school and teacher to the education system
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A few days ago
seth j
I’m in 8th grade and my teacher started getting pissed at me for no reason trying to pick my chair up and slam it down and I almost ****** knoked her out
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A few days ago
Anonymous
Get your gun brotha.
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