A few days ago
Anonymous

What’s the best way to fit into high school?

I’m going to be a freshman in highschool this september and I was wondering ..how I can fit into high school and not look like a dork clueless girl… I’m a little nervous to start school. I just need some advice

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A few days ago
saveit

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just stay close with your friends but make new ones too. don’t try to always have a boyfriend. being in a relationship takes away from getting to know other people and they will just make up their own decisions about you without really knowing you. be active in a sport or a club. i was a manager on the baseball team and it was really fun and i made a bunch of real friendships.
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A few days ago
Izzy F
Sorry honey, no one fits in in high school. Oh it may look like a few of the “popular” people actually manage to fit in, but talk to those people ten years from now and their entire existence will be defined by that fleeting moment way back in high school when they were “it.”

I bet they will be wrinkled, fat, haggard, have three bratty spoild children in the back of the SUV, and perpetually bitter that their formerly popular, attractive, jock-hero boyfriend from high school is now their husband and is now a fat slob who won’t get his lazy unshaven butt off the couch to take out the trash and can’t get a decent job because he was so busy trying to be popular that he barely passed his classes and couldn’t get into a decent college, so he now works in an auto repair shop fixing the cars owned by all the now successful, former “dork clueless” girls and boys who went ahead and lived life.

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A few days ago
Jenny
starting high school can be nervewrecking. but pretty soon, you’ll know how everything works and you wont be clueless.

dont try and put on an act and be someone you’re not. just be yourself and how you’ve always been. that way you know the kind of people you want as your friends. if you put on an act, it’s just gonna make things harder for you.

dont worry so much about image. all your peers are going to be freshmen too and they are just as clueless as you are.

go in with confidence and you’re gonna be fine

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A few days ago
Miss Lovely Candi
BE YOURSELF! i cannot stress that enough. high school is a great experience and it is some of the best years you will have. be outgoing, don’t be shy. don’t trust everyone you meet, because there will inevitably be some sort of drama because it is high school. get involved! please do not wait until junior or senior year to start getting involved. it’s a great way to meet people who share the same interests as you.
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A few days ago
Michael
i was terrified of going to high school because i didnt have very many friends in middle school but it was not scary at all and because i went to a large high school there were tons more kids for me to be friends with and i made a lot of great buddies
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A few days ago
jargent100
Any attempts to fit in will fail if you aren’t being yourself.

That’s the only advice to follow: Be yourself.

Get involved in activities that interest you, and things will flow from there.

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A few days ago
Anonymous
Be confident and outgoing. Don’t be intimidated by the idea of talking to people you don’t know and you will do just fine.
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