A few days ago
mz_cricket48

public speaking?

in year 7 and 8 i was alright at public speacking but then my parents broke up and i became scared of speaking and now wen i speak i get really nervous and strat to go red my heart beats really really fast and i shake is there anyway i can get my public speaking abilities back without shaking?

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A few days ago
Furioso Lion88

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Sorry to here about your parents…….breaking apart.

Well, I’m a public speaker myself(Speech 1& 2) High School level.

Controlling Your Nervousness

1. Focus on any friends or certain people only.

2.Don’t worry, the people won’t mind.

3.Be Confident

4.Be prepared.

5.Just relax.

6.Just speak to a mirror & focus.

7.Pratice various relaxation techniques before speaking

8.Speak to someone you trust.

9.Postive attitude will reduce any bad karma.

10.Just concentrate on getting your messeage across the listeners.

Stage fright

1.All leaders have this however, just use the best methods.

Do they already know much about my topic?

What can I tell them about your topic that they do not know?

Will my topic intrest some audience members more than others?

How can I make my topic more intresting?

If I can take a stand on an issue, will my audience agree with me?

If not, what intrests or needs do they have through which i might change their minds?

Shaking is an bad Karma, u must master your shaking.

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Good Luck mzcricket48 .

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7 years ago
Jake
I really struggled with public speaking. I discovered that in fact I wasn’t scared of speaking in public, I just didn’t know how to do it. www.publicspeakinghelp.info really helped me, life saver! Hope this helps:)
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A few days ago
Chris Harrison
As you stated, you already have the resource within to be a strong speaker.

You need to learn to reaccess that ability and use it when ever neccessary. The technique for this is anchoring. I have listed a link to an explanation below, along with a couple of links about public speaking and confidence techniques.

Best Wishes.

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A few days ago
Anonymous
A couple of things that work for me.

If i really nervous, I double my preparation.

When first up on stage, I imagine them in their underwear – -krazy but it takes the edge off.

For the really scary, have some props you can point to, to draw their attention off you for a few secs everynow and then.

Good luck, relax girl – youll ace it

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A few days ago
Singa
If your school has a Toastmasters Club, I would join it. You will have many opportunities to speak before a group and they will even teach you how to use that nervous energy in your presentation and how to get over your “stage fright.”

If you do not, join the Speech Cllub. THis social group will also give you many opportunities like Toastmasters does.

The best way to get over stage fright is just like falling off of a horse. You just have to do it over and over again.

Good luck

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A few days ago
hemant g
i faced this problem few months ago when i have to give lrcturer on atpic in engeering college.i was very worried about this topic. then my father give me a advice.i went in lonely room and give a lectur .you should go in aroom and follow my method .give lecturer on your platform and assume that no one is listening your lectur.do not think that they are laughing and going to think wrong.be positive thinking.
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A few days ago
Anonymous
Just be yourself and relax…U need to pretend like you are talking to a few people that you know very closely
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