A few days ago
Anonymous

How can I handle studying, homework, and having fun without failing?

I am doing bad in school because I don’t know how to handle everything. My parents are really upset with me because I am doing poorly. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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A few days ago
Anonymous

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The only things you need to “handle” are homework and studying. Those are your priorities when you’re in school. Fun is for Friday night and Saturday and if you’re lucky, Sunday too, except for some time in the evening perhaps.

As soon as you get home, have a light healthy snack and devote 2 hours to your homework. Take a 5 – 10 minute break in between.

If you’re still not finished, allow yourself a “brain break” for 30 minutes – do something you enjoy. Then, return to your work.

If you’re still not able to finish your assigned work, it may be a bigger issue — you might need the help of a tutor, at least for a while, until you can proceed on your own.

This requires self-motivation. You were motivated enough to ask – acknowledging you have a problem. Now it’s time to take action.

Bottom line — you’ll need to save your fun for weekends until you can better manage your time.

good luck!

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A few days ago
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Did you think of studying WITH your friends? I’m sure they have the same homework assignments, or similar, or just being WITH your friend while studying can help you do the homework and have fun at the same time.

You have to be disciplined about it though, that you don’t “gab” the time away without doing the actual WORK. Having a parent around can help you keep focus on the work. Having your friends to help “bounce off” ideas can be a great benefit, too.

Have the dining room table the focus of your “Homework group.” Have some cookies and milk there (okay SODA then!) so you can give your brains some energy while you spread out your books, papers, and what-not with your friends, and dig into the work.

Set the hours of 4:30-6:00pm for your study group, say, every day! You get with your friends, you get your work done… you have FUN and your grades will improve!

I hope this helps!

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A few days ago
gradstudent309
I used to have a really bad problem procrastinating. I would almost never turn in homework assignments, and I was frequently late with papers and projects. This wasn’t because I couldn’t do the work, but just because I had other things I wanted to do, and Homework came last.

I finally had to force myself to do my homework first. I made it a rule that I couldn’t go out with my friends until I finished all my daily homework, or made progress on a paper (if it was a long-term project).

The problem is, if you don’t like homework, you will ALWAYS find something more interesting to do, so the best way to make sure you don’t fail is to go ahead and get it out of the way as soon as possible. You’ll be pleasantly surprised at how good it feels to finish all your work and realize you still have time to do something you want.

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A few days ago
Wai Meng Y
Well, if you see fun as separate from homework and studies, then you will really need to balance your time wisely.

If you see studying and having fun as the same thing (but fun with friends as somewhat separate), then there is some hope in enjoying your studies. Although I think it is unlikely that you are seeing it this way.

I will suggest you prioritise your time and priorities. Look through your homework in a day, and decide how much time to set aside for homework and revision. Make it a priority to complete your assignments, before having fun with friends. If you want to go out with friends, always make sure there is nothing left (example, homework) so that you can check with your parents if you can spend more time outside having fun.

Important is the need to have fun to de-stress, but don’t go to the extreme.

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A few days ago
Anonymous
first of all get a diary or planner to record your appointments in write all your homework assignments and all their due dates don’t forget tests , divide your time up in different sections like homework time study time and fun time study work and have fun without missing any work or having late assignments. good luck with succeeding!!!
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A few days ago
Anonymous
You have to prioritize. Why not take care of your school work and then go hang out with your friends? It’s not an either or, just do the important stuff first.
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A few days ago
Anonymous
stop going out for awhile and concentrate on studing and on your grades for awhile and see if this makes a difference. I know how stressful college is and sometimes you have to give something up, friends sometimes have to take a backseat for little while too but they should understand.
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