A few days ago
M.

What should I do?

I JUST came from my first 30 minutes of highschool.

Me and my mom were standing in line to get my homeroom number and the hallways were sweaty and dark…i’m only 5 feet tall and look like a 10 year old.

everyone was just staring at me, the teachers seemed really strict, there was grafitti EVERYWHERE.

People smoking, I used to go to a very upper class middle school, and this is a very lower class highschool that is located in a bad area.

My mom said “excuse me where is the office located at?” and the kid just turned around and started cussing my mom out.

I TOLD my mom that this school wasn’t good for me, but she said I would be fine until she actually witnessed how bad it was…..all the girls dressed trashy EVERYTHING.

My mom took one look at me when we were in line and said “Are you crying?” and then I told her I was honestly about to.I couldn’t imagine myself alone there.

Now I am home crying.

And my moms on the phone calling the county to see if I could be homeschooled

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A few days ago
hsmomlovinit

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If you live in the US, yes, you can be homeschooled. It is legal in all 50 states. The county may give you different answers, as may the school (they lose funding if you don’t attend), but you can homeschool. (If you live in another country, check here:http://www.hslda.org/hs/international/default.asp)

Every state has different homeschool laws; in some you have to register and have an evaluator 1-2 times per year, and in others you just plain send a letter to the school advising them that you’re homeschooling and go for it. This site will give you the basic laws in that area, as well as some homeschool groups. Your mom can call the group leader of any group in your area, even right this minute, and ask what steps she needs to take. Honestly, they will be much more helpful than the county, as they are likely to be more aware of the rules and steps.

http://www.hslda.org/hs/state/default.asp

This page has good tips for getting started:

http://www.youcanhomeschool.org/starthere/default.asp?bhcp=1

(Ignore the “how did you hear about us” pop-up)

You can also get books at the library that are very helpful, I believe they are usually listed in the 365’s or so.

I started homeschooling my son in much the same time frame (though he was much younger); he came home crying his eyes out the first day of school after we moved, it turned out that the school was close to 2 years behind the one we moved from; the third day of school, I pulled him and we’ve been homeschooling ever since. It was a bit stressful that first week, trying to figure out what to do, but past that I wouldn’t trade it for anything.

Good luck – and ask back if you need more help!

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A few days ago
Terri
It’s difficult to tell from your description of whether you have recently moved to a new area, or if you are still in the same place and this is the highschool for the same area your middle school is in.

If you have not moved, then you must have friends in there, somewhere, that went to your middle school. If they are not going to the same school you are, then find out why. You may have an option to transfer to the school they attend, look in to it.

If you are new to the area, then you probably do not know anyone and it probably is a shock to move from an affluent area to what sounds like an inner urban area. If this school is the result of a move, then if your family’s financial situation allows, maybe a private school is an option.

If those scenarios are not do-able, and you and your mom feel this new school is unsafe, then perhaps it is best that she looks in to homeschooling, but contacting the county probably is not the best place to begin the search.

she should contact www.hslda.org for the most accurate information on how to begin homeschooling in your area.

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A few days ago
beanhead1972((14HIM))
First of all, your mom doesn’t need permission tohomeschool you. She is the parent. If your mom truly wants to homeschool you, have her check in your local phone book for Christian Schools that offer a “Homeschool program”. Public school has gone down hill fast and I will NEVER expose my kid sto what I was exposed to in HS and that was nearly 20 years ago. I can’t imagine what it is like now.

Try Christian Liberty Press and also look into the Homeschool Legal Defense (HSDLA).

If you and your mom can be dedicate dto your education, you CAN do it, and you will finish High School sooner if you stay ahead of the game. Good Luck.

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A few days ago
Hannah M
If you live in the USA then there is absolutely no reason why you can’t be home schooled, regardless of what anyone outside the homeschooling community might tell your mum.

I’m just telling you that, because if your mum calls the school authorities and asks about homeschooling you, there is every possibility that they will tell her you can’t homeschool/it’s illegal etc etc. All your mum needs to know about that is: they’re bluffing. Thay have a vested interest (money) in making sure your mum enrols you in their school and they’ll tell her whatever they think it’s going to take to get her to do that.

Before you and your parents make any decisions, check out HSLDA (for the *GENUINE* rules r.e. homeschooling in your State and not the school board’s ‘interpretation’ of them) and the homeschooling groups local to where you live – check with your local library or do an internet search for ‘homeschooling groups+your town/State’.

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A few days ago
Cris O
Awwwww, I felt so sad when I read your post, honey! What a terrible day you’ve had. There are tons of different hs programs, and I am sure you can find one that is a good fit for you. I sure do hope this works out. Email me if you want to talk. I have 2 kids in grades 8 & 9 that I hs.
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A few days ago
Anonymous
This is the sad reality of the world today. When I went to school that only happened in the bathrooms and back fence areas of the gym field.

This is why homeschooling has become popular.

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A few days ago
tercentenary98
Don’t go to that school at all. There’s enough people here that if you needed home school help no one would let you down. I’d rather see you home schooled than find out that you’re a statistic. We home school and it’s great to do. People rave like idiots about socialization problems with home schooled kids. You’re school now is a great example of where socialization is headed.
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A few days ago
rugratsspoil
Suggestion: Stay away from that place!! We don’t want anything bad happened! This is just personal oppinion.
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A few days ago
*~☺~*
Hope things work out for you, love! I’m sure your mum will do what is best for you.

Good luck and don’t be sad. : )

love nikki X

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