horrible for me—pl. advise?
i am a soft spoken young lady recently appointed as a school teacher.
my problem is i can not able to maintain discipline specially in higher classes. some older girls are creating much problems . they don’t listen intentionally. when i report this to headmaster he put blame me only.will i start punishing even the older girls ? i feel embarassed thinking i’m punishing a senior student.
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1. Respect and Relationships
2. Procedures
3. Structure
4. Rigor and Relevance
Although you are not in the first days of school any longer, this book with give you excellent tips on what to do and where to go from here.
I don’t have a lot of experience but spent 4 months student teaching recently. I found that it is very helpful to involve students in forming the rules and consequences of the class so they feel as if they are involved in the class and are treated, at least somewhat, as equals. Discipline generally should also be in the form of a consequence instead of a punishment (instead of detention, ask a student to write an essay about why his/her behavior was inappropriate and what he/she is going to do to improve).
I also always had something for students to do so they were always being held accountable. Students could never say they didn’t have anything to do.
And even though you might not want to, it might help to contact parents or guardians. Starting off with a compliment early in the year before students have a chance to cause problems would help establish a relationship. Then if the student is causing problems later the parent already knows who you are and doesn’t assume you are just being some jerk teacher who is calling home. Parents might not always help, but sometimes they’re your best weapon.
Lastly, my favorite part of classroom management was developing a good rapport with my students. I knew every student’s name, greeted them at the door, and was able to joke with them. This in turn led to respect (a majority of the time) and made students actually want to behave.
Good luck– it isn’t easy and is underappreciated!
But frankly, you are just going to have to toughen up. I taught 6th graders like this (pros and cons compared to seniors) and I wasn’t very authoritative…they made me be. When I looked at them, it was almost as if they were saying “Come on, we needs someone to show us the right thing to do”…while they were cussing at me. Its almost like they had these fear of being good…but wanted to be.
Good luck, and hang in there!
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