What should I do to make American friends?
Hi, I’m a Japanese boy and studying in Ashland,Oregon from this September as an international and exchange student from my university in Japan for around 2 yrs. And I do wish to make American friends there. I’m kinda shy, but I do want to be more confident and active. Are there any tips you recommend? Thanx a lot! 😉
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I met one of my best friends (a Japanese girl) in a building I used to work in. She worked in the food court and I would stop by every morning to get a drink from her. I foundout she liked movies and invited her spend Canada Day with me at the theater. Another best friend lived a few doors over in a college dorm.
Although many may disagree with this point, it is certainly true. Make sure that you dress like the Americans! It will be a big help. Since we as a country are so multi-cultural, being Asian wouldn’t make you stand out as much as dressing differently does! (Ask a couple of Americans to take you shopping! The girls will have a great time!)
Second, you should seek out the International Student Center (most universities have one). There you will find Americans who WANT to be friends with international students! I made some pretty good “foreign” friends that way in college.
Make sure you talk to people in class and join some type of activity outside of class — clubs, church, inter mural sports, etc.
Look for students who are also away from home — not necessarily international, but American students as well. They don’t come with a peer group attached and are also looking to make new friends!
Don’t be discouraged! Although Americans are very friendly on the surface, they often take much longer to form real friendships. You may feel that they are friendly to you in class, but don’t understand why they don’t follow up. That’s the way we are.
Finally, remember that YOU need to offer invitations as well as look for them!
Good luck and have fun!
Peace.
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