My 5yr old will not listen…should I suspend her activities??
Please help!!!!
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As for simple behavior modification, you might suggest to her that a privilege (such as an after-dinner treat or TV or computer time or whatever) will be suspended if she forgets to treat her classroom respectfully. That works for us 🙂
Good luck!
But what is her teacher doing? Elementary teachers are trained in how to handle these minor misbehaviours in the classroom. What is she doing to ensure that your daughter follows instructions and talking at inappropriate times?
In case she doesn’t know, you can remind her that positive reinforcement is always, always, always more effective than negative punishment. If your daughter does something well — follows directions — how does the teacher reward her? Talking at inappropriate times isn’t hard to squelch. That’s just rudeness. If the teacher asks everyone to be quiet and your daughter keeps talking, she’s going to be embarrassed. And that will solve that problem.
Ask the teacher to let you know when your daughter does something well — and you can reward her at home with a big hug or a star on her chart – literally. Kids love stars on charts.
But please don’t ‘punish’ a five year old by taking away out of school activities. That is totally inappropriate.
If that does not work then try a therapist.
A GREAT parenting site is www.loveandlogic.com
Good luck!
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