Personally, though, I don’t thing switching colleges is the worst decision; it may not be the best or most efficient choice available, but it won’t drastically alter your opportunities after graduation. My brother attended four different colleges, and after six years graduated from a UC with good marks, and later went on to earn his Master’s degree.

I don’t see why your cousin can’t get married AND stay in college; having a baby might require dropping out, but I don’t see how marriage only would necessitate dropping out.

But switching schools 4 times sounds like a lack of commitment to education – maybe that is just as bad.

When you ask for an opinion about a situation, and give so little information – you are going to get a critical, judgmental answer. There is probably more to both stories – but you don’t provide that.

If you don’t have a fiance, stay in college.