loving the person and accepting him of who he is… that includes embracing his imperfections, everything about him… nobody’s perfect and somehow we fall short of our partner’s expectations..in the same manner, our partner oftentimes fall short of our expectations and in some way would hurt us intentionally or unintentionally.. but if we love the person, we are able and capable of accepting his shortcomings and mistakes and loving him still.. it is not a struggle to be the perfect lover but of loving the person perfectly no matter who he is…

either we are the lover, fallen in love or loved by somebody –

firstly, we must be prepared to check and balance about ourself from various part