-Eleanor Roosevelt

Associate yourself with men of good quality if you esteem your own reputation for ’tis better to be alone than in bad company. George Washington (1732 – 1799)

Perhaps you have got the other one not completely correct.I will try to give u what I can make out of it …remaining unperturbed or unaffected by external events …to maintain a pose or look of being in control.

“Great spirits have always found violent opposition from mediocre minds.” – Albert Einstein

“Search others for their virtues, thy self for thy vices.” – Benjamin Franklin

“Always forgive your enemies; nothing annoys them so much.” – Oscar Wilde

“I destroy my enemies when I make them my friends.” – Abraham Lincoln

I hope that helps.